PLEASE HELP! I am so grossed out by myself?!
Question: PLEASE HELP! I am so grossed out by myself.?
I'm so embarrassed and I really don't know what to do.
I am quite young, but I am in love with my bf and we have been having sex for 2 months (i lost my virginity to him). Last night, we tried a new position, i won't go into details, but basically, i like, peed a little bit on him. UGH, i'm so grossed out, and i feel terrible about it. I managed to convince him that it was squirting, but i know that wasn't it because i didn't orgasm.
What do i do about this.?
I really feel like he should break up with me; how do i console myself.?
Should i tell him.?
What do i do if he finds out on his own.?
Im so embarrassed, please help me.Health Question & Answer
I am quite young, but I am in love with my bf and we have been having sex for 2 months (i lost my virginity to him). Last night, we tried a new position, i won't go into details, but basically, i like, peed a little bit on him. UGH, i'm so grossed out, and i feel terrible about it. I managed to convince him that it was squirting, but i know that wasn't it because i didn't orgasm.
What do i do about this.?
I really feel like he should break up with me; how do i console myself.?
Should i tell him.?
What do i do if he finds out on his own.?
Im so embarrassed, please help me.Health Question & Answer
Answers:
He wont find out on his own and there is nothing to be embarrassed about. Easy for me to say I know but just try to let it go. Some people even do this as part of their sexual preferences you know!
In future empty your bladder before sex and its actually a good idea to do it after intercourse also. It's not that surprising that you peed a little, there isn't all that much room up there and whatever position you were in must have allowed him to put pressure on your bladder.
Don't let this ruin a good relationship, just try to let it go, the embarrassment will wear off and you will be back to normal soon.
By the way, nice save with the squirting, you're very resourceful.
Gx
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In future empty your bladder before sex and its actually a good idea to do it after intercourse also. It's not that surprising that you peed a little, there isn't all that much room up there and whatever position you were in must have allowed him to put pressure on your bladder.
Don't let this ruin a good relationship, just try to let it go, the embarrassment will wear off and you will be back to normal soon.
By the way, nice save with the squirting, you're very resourceful.
Gx
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I guess the first thing is to really be sure about your relationship with him. would he understand. Now during your act and the accidental peeing I don't know if that is natural or not cause your position is not stated.
Now I say this because I am a medical assistant and I cant give you advise on that part but as your bf if you two love each other as you say then he would understand if you tell him.Health Question & Answer
Now I say this because I am a medical assistant and I cant give you advise on that part but as your bf if you two love each other as you say then he would understand if you tell him.Health Question & Answer
hey don't worry about it it happens. to almost every women at some point in our lives. i have a little trick that i do before having relations. i go to the bathroom and have a pee. when women have orgasms the contractions makes the bladder empty. Health Question & Answer
i say, just admit it to him,
and hopefully he should understand,
and if he loves you liek you love him,
you guys should be able to forget about it.Health Question & Answer
and hopefully he should understand,
and if he loves you liek you love him,
you guys should be able to forget about it.Health Question & Answer
This is quite com mom, lots of woman have experienced urination leakage during sex. All i can suggest is to make sure your bladder is empty before you get intimate with each other. Health Question & Answer
Poo on him next time, so that you can say you did both.Health Question & Answer
This is a tough one. Basically, if you love him and he loves you, it shouldn't matter. Maybe the position you were in caused you to not be able to control yourself. Which doesn't necessarily mean that you peed. Women can at times, have a liquid come out without having a "full orgasm." Kinda like how guys have pre-***. If you think it's a real problem, just don't do that position again and make sure you go to the bathroom right before any sexual activity (which is a good rule of thumb anyway). Tell your boyfriend if you are feeling guilty about it, and if he does care about you he won't break up with you over it. But then at least you are giving him the option to know that you may have done what you thought you did. Sometimes our bodies do things that we don't want them to do. That's all that happened. Good luck and no worries. This isn't the last embarrassing thing that will happen to you in the bedroom. Health Question & Answer
why would he break up with you.? If you're this embarrassed you shouldn't be having sex, as you mentioned your quite young anyways. It was an accident, you couldn't help it, that's like saying you should break up with him because he came. Come on, sex isn't like it is in the movies, all smooth and quiet. It's raw and crazy, there are sounds that you might not like, smells, all sorts of things. It's completely normal, but if you really very young, I'd suggest maybe you wait a little longer before you have sex again, and always use protection!Health Question & Answer
ewwwww that's gross. If a girl pissed or crapped on me, that would be the end of the relationshipHealth Question & Answer