Am I overreacting here, or is my friend's behavior unacceptable?!
Question: Am I overreacting here, or is my friend's behavior unacceptable.?
My best guy friend (who is in a long-distance relationship with his gf) is now questioning his sexuality. He asked his girl friend whether he can experiment, and she agreed that he can. This is the girlfriend that he says he wants to marry.
Do you think he's really gay.? he claims that he's definitely into woman but still wants to experiment with guys. He says he would only want to be on the receiving end though. (a bottom)
At the beginning of college, he had an open relationship with his long distance gf so he could have sex with other women. So he basically just used women for sex. This leads to believe that some part of him is very much straight...
so I'm thinking he's just bi.
We're in college..so I guess it's good to figure his sexuality out now.
He's not definitely going to have sex with guys..but if he finds a guy, then he will. He says he won't definitely wear a condom, but the guy must get tested first. He's gotten tested a couple times and he's fine.
i don't care that he might be gay and I think its good that he's exploring...I just feel like he's using people and has used peopleHealth Question & Answer
Do you think he's really gay.? he claims that he's definitely into woman but still wants to experiment with guys. He says he would only want to be on the receiving end though. (a bottom)
At the beginning of college, he had an open relationship with his long distance gf so he could have sex with other women. So he basically just used women for sex. This leads to believe that some part of him is very much straight...
so I'm thinking he's just bi.
We're in college..so I guess it's good to figure his sexuality out now.
He's not definitely going to have sex with guys..but if he finds a guy, then he will. He says he won't definitely wear a condom, but the guy must get tested first. He's gotten tested a couple times and he's fine.
i don't care that he might be gay and I think its good that he's exploring...I just feel like he's using people and has used peopleHealth Question & Answer
Answers:
This guy's behavior is unacceptable.
It is good that he can be honest with his girlfriend about his sexuality and questions, don't get me wrong.
But, does she know that he won't agree to use protection.? I think that would greatly change her opinion on his experimentation. An STD test is not protection.
This guy is totally selfish. He's concerned about himself, and he does not care who he hurts along the way. If he gets infected with certain STDs (ie HIV) this will not show up on test results for months. Likewise, if the guy he sleeps with became infected recently, the guy would not test positive and in fact would be even more likely to pass the disease along. This guy is a complete idiot, and he has no respect for his girlfriend.
AIDS is AIDS, no matter what you've got in your pants. I can't believe this guy would ultimately be willing to risk killing his girlfriend just so he doesn't have to use a rubber!Health Question & Answer
It is good that he can be honest with his girlfriend about his sexuality and questions, don't get me wrong.
But, does she know that he won't agree to use protection.? I think that would greatly change her opinion on his experimentation. An STD test is not protection.
This guy is totally selfish. He's concerned about himself, and he does not care who he hurts along the way. If he gets infected with certain STDs (ie HIV) this will not show up on test results for months. Likewise, if the guy he sleeps with became infected recently, the guy would not test positive and in fact would be even more likely to pass the disease along. This guy is a complete idiot, and he has no respect for his girlfriend.
AIDS is AIDS, no matter what you've got in your pants. I can't believe this guy would ultimately be willing to risk killing his girlfriend just so he doesn't have to use a rubber!Health Question & Answer
In my opinion that sounds a bit fishy...even if you were questioning your sexuality, there's no excuse for using people. Having "open relationships" doesn't seem right. also, a lot of gay people don't need to actually have sex to know that they are gay.Health Question & Answer
He sounds bi. Its ok to be in an open relationship if both partners agree and are aware of it. It eliminates cheating and dis-honesty.
What I don't agree on is that he's not going to use a condom. He should, especial because the h.I.v virus and other s.t.d's are spreading like crazy everywhere. Heterosexuals alike. If and at anytime he meets up with his gf, she should be aware of that, he might spread it to her or vise versa.
Encurage him to use a condom if possible. Here are the best (5 out of 5), they transfer body heat, feels like your not using one, are very thin yet strong and doesn't smell like rubber:
1) Trojan Supra
2) Kimono
3) Pleasure plus Health Question & Answer
What I don't agree on is that he's not going to use a condom. He should, especial because the h.I.v virus and other s.t.d's are spreading like crazy everywhere. Heterosexuals alike. If and at anytime he meets up with his gf, she should be aware of that, he might spread it to her or vise versa.
Encurage him to use a condom if possible. Here are the best (5 out of 5), they transfer body heat, feels like your not using one, are very thin yet strong and doesn't smell like rubber:
1) Trojan Supra
2) Kimono
3) Pleasure plus Health Question & Answer