Is this normal? Female Thinking & Wanting Sex Constantly?!


Question: Is this normal.? Female Thinking & Wanting Sex Constantly.?
I just turned 37. I've always had a strong sex drive. Lets say daily.
Here lately I am not able to get my mind off sex. I want sex constantly.
My body aches for it.. This is no joke and he's been getting upset with me..(have been together for many years) What do I do.?.? Even if I "do it" myself, I am still yearning for him to be inside me. Help ME. .It's driving me crazy too. Is this normal for women my age.? IS something wrong with me.? I want it right now...! We have a child and someitmes its only when she goes to sleep.. But sometimes he is too tired, then I have to wait the next day.. It's making me insane...
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Ok now, nobody think bad of me because I've got three little girls who're only 5 years old and believe it or not I'm 57. That's right, fifty-seven.

And I'm nowhere near needing Viagra, I can't believe I said that. My girls donot even know about the "birds and the bees" just yet. And it's going to stay that way for awhile.

At 57 I'm at the health club minding my own business on the eliptical cycle. Some girl walks by, various ages of course, and the scent of that perfume hits me and I'm in trouble.

It get's me all stirred up. I need to get my girls a Mom, that way I'll have a wife/lover/friend/partner/playmate all for myself.

From me, my observation is that you're normal as can be. Only thing to do is simply do your best to handle the situation. But allow your partner his space. Don't make him tired of you, or your pleasure tour.

Ya'll don't be thinking bad of me. I don't usually answer questions like this but we must face the real world and sex is a part of it. Without sex, none of us would even have been born.

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ok you are not a sex addict. Women's sexual peek is in their thirties-fourties. I am 28 and i am pretty much like you, (although i have been lie this since i was a teen) want it all the time, crave it, think it, everytime i see my partner i wanna pin him down etc. It is normal, it is natural, Your libido will eventually calm down. Do not listen to people when they say you are a sex addict, you are not. You are just in your sexual primeHealth Question & Answer

I'm also 37, and I think it's our "peak" time. Lucky for me, my husband seems to be "peaking" too. He used to be a dud, but I lost some weight & it's like dating all over again..........lol. Yeah, get that vibrator with the clit stimulator on it....it's the best one.Health Question & Answer

Think of those poor people that separated from their partners so they can't have sex. :(

I think you are just addicted to it. I don't think every women constantly thinks about it, but some do. Health Question & Answer

I may be only 18... but I think about it all the time also, infact to the point where it drives me nuts... so yea it is possible to feel that way, everyone has a different sex driveHealth Question & Answer

oh yes, I like your additional details, go out there and inspire other women to think the same! :)
sorry I cant help your issue though.Health Question & Answer

I know this won't help you but I hope and pray that my wife will suffer from the same thing some day... Health Question & Answer

you need to get bonedd,going southHealth Question & Answer

I sure do wish my lady had that problem instead of you !Health Question & Answer

hehe, I can relate. At least you're getting some , hun. Try beign that way after a break up. Well, so, yeah, we just had sex a lot..I'd rather have him most times, too..he was younger than me , so maybe that worked out well, all things considered. We really got to the point where we just had to cut it down to 4-5 times a week..though. I mean, we both have very active lives. What I did.? Let the anticipation make it all the better. I guess if you really have to ..you could get a vibrator..or hand held shower massage. But, you don't want to turn this into a negative thing between the two of your, really.
Now, we're broken up. And talking about something suking monkey a**. Yeah, abstaining while you have that high of a drive is just nuts. And you're right, it totally is counterproductive at time; taking things into your hands.
So, just count yourself lucky, my friend. And get a vibrator if you really need to (weird, random fact..did you know that vibrators were invented by doctors..they used to use orgasms as treatment for 'ailment's --so their hands got tired...omfg, I lived in the wrong era!!!)

edit...girls..I'm 43 and it's been like this since I first started having sex...I don't think it's a peak; I think it's here for good (least I hope so ;-)Health Question & Answer

Relax girl, your perfectly normal ! :) A guy reaches his sexual peak at between 18 to 20 years of age while females hit their sexual peak at about 40.so you are just peaking,
As for the times he is too tired or not at home you can use a massager to stimulate your Clitoris and use a life like Dildo, inside your Vagina so you get that feeling he gives you. They are now made of a rubber material that feels like a real penis.
If when he is too tired maybe he can help you get an orgasim, and the next night you give him some great head to make up for it.
You go girl you are perfectly healthy enjoy !!!! :) On tip, once he sees you laying on the bed naked with your new toys just let him watch for a while and trust me he will be all over you gf :)Health Question & Answer



It sounds like you have a sex addiction, I have one too, I went to like these group therapy meetings, it was pretty cool and it really worked, but on the first day I had sex in the bathroom with some chick who was also there.

I'm younger though, and you are 37. Maybe it's jut like your body telling you that you should enjoy yourself before you kick it, because every year older women find it harder and harder to have sex or have a baby because their hormone progression slows down, but you probably already know that.

But if you just can't resist it maybe you should just go have sex with a co-worker or friend or something and really just get the passion out of your system. Group therapy was pretty cool though, I suggest you try it because everyone there is going through the same thing you are!!

Hope that helps you babeHealth Question & Answer



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