Masturbating vs. with someone?!


Question: Masturbating vs. with someone.?
Strictly in the physical sense, which is better.? Personally, I can orgasm through masturbation, but I've never given myself an intense one or found anything that works really well. It's more of something to deal with horniness. But with my boyfriend, it's a different story. I've still never experienced a vaginal orgasm, only clitoral, but he can do me so much better than I can. It's weird, but things that don't do much at all for me when I'm by myself feel really good when done by my boyfriend. What're your experiences.?Health Question & Answer


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I totally agree that orgasm given by your significant other is so much more intense. I think this is because you relinquish your power to that person at that moment and are entirely theirs. I have been married for many, many years to the same person, and have not had many vaginal orgasms, but have had many at his hand and can get turned on thinking about the moment that you reach orgasm through love.Health Question & Answer

strictly in the physical sense..
someone else is almost always gonna make you feel better than you can do with yourself.
like you said, masturbation is a way to 'deal with' horniness.
the way you look at it is like business. get it, get the job done, get out.
when you're with someone else, there's passion, there's emotion, there's all that good stuff that can make it really really good.
especially if it's with someone you're close to, versus a one night stand.
have you tried mutual masturbation.?
that would be altogether different as well!Health Question & Answer

Wow, I'm pretty much the opposite. He does great things & it leads up and up and up then straight down...dun dun daaahn. lol. Sometimes I can get "there", other times no.
I usually have better luck on my own most of the time. I picked up a small vibrating rocket thing, because I can only orgasm with clitoral stimulation. But there are other toys that you can get that give the same/ or close too the feel of him, that you can use on your own. =)Health Question & Answer

Get yourself a Jack rabbit..ive had one for a while and absolutely love it..i feel that if you masturbate and become confident of how you like to ***..you can experience new heights with your boyfriend.

Get together and watch some porn and you'll reach orgasm a lot faster too...

if your boyfriend cums quickly..try to play with him and go for 2nds..guys can usually hold better the 2nd time around..so he will be in you longer and harder..making you *** multiple times...

Hope I helpedHealth Question & Answer

i alwayss find that it feels much better with someone else than myself.
it usually depends on the person but in my opinion its muchhhh more enjoyable when its someone else.Health Question & Answer

Well of course, because it's somebody else touching you so it feels better.Health Question & Answer



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