I just had my baby.... and sex don't sound good any more...?!

No, nothing is wrong with you at all. You are probably more tired than you used to be and they say that mothers get so much physical contact with their children (hugs,kisses) that they don't feel the need to get it elsewhere.Health Question & Answer

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You didn't just have your baby- it was 3 months ago. If your Dr. has cleared you and everything is OK physically, then you should not have problem having sex (avg. is 6-8 weeks) I understand that is doesn't sound appealing right now - you're tired, stressed with caring for a baby, etc. But, for the sake of your marriage, you do need to make an attempt. Sex is 90% mental - and you need to work on that. If you can leave the baby with a grandparent or sitter for a few hours (he'll be fine), you and your husband need a date. You need time away from the baby to give your husband some attention - go out to dinner, maybe even a motel (or the house, if baby isn't there) - spend time just being with each other. If you continue to feel adverse to sex, discuss it with your Dr. - and at least cuddle, kiss and offer other sexual release for your husband. Health Question & Answer

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It takes time for romance to come back after having a baby. I had bad post-partum depression and sex didn't sound good for me either after I had my son. I talked to my husband about it, and to my OB. She gave me a prescription for anti-depressants and a few months of therapy on those helped me a lot. also, the stress of a new baby is causing part of that, too. If your husband is concerned, then tell him he can help by making you feel sexy and desirable and tell you how beautiful you are everyday, before and after sex. This is a self-esteem/post-partum depression problem. It's normal.Health Question & Answer

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Nothing is wrong with you. This happens to most of the mom's I've known including myself. It's hard to summon up interest when you are constantly attached to this small squalling thing that you can well remember pushing out of that delicate area only a few months ago.

First - reassure him that it's normal and not just you. It comes back.

Second - if you can manage it, how about gratifying him with other means.?

Third - find some mom friends and share. It helps a lot to have that support.Health Question & Answer

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you jsut got to give ti time you just had a baby give it a couple more months and you will be all over your husband.
or mayb you didnt want a baby so you are worrying that you will end up with another one.


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Your hormones and body are out of whack for at least a yr after having a baby. Did you know that.? It's only been 3 months, you're exhausted from a newborn and your body is trying to adjust back to normal. Give it time. If you are super worried, ask your doctor.Health Question & Answer

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Not at all, it's just your hormones and everything that is going on with your body. Having a baby changes everything with your body and it takes some time to get back to normal. Health Question & Answer

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ur not ready for a kid start caring and loving not that love though just think of it like you never knew what se* means like when you were a kid stop saying swears start being a great,funny,kind, mom! or then your boy will be scared of uHealth Question & Answer

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nothin is wrong with you!! im pregnant right now and my doctor told me that its normal not to wanna have sex during or after pregnancy!! your horomones are still goin crazy!! but its totally cool and you should get your sex drive back!!Health Question & Answer

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Of course not! Gosh! you just had a baby! Do you really want another one already.? just tell your husband that you are really not interested in having another child for at least a few more years.Health Question & Answer

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just tell him you're still sore from squeezing his baby out of your vagina. and no i think it's pretty normal, the sexual urge will probably come back soon.Health Question & Answer

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What's new .? As soon as a woman has a baby, then her husband becomes last priority in her life. Health Question & Answer

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uhh...have you had sex since youve had the baby.? if not you might want to try it cuz maybe you'll be like :O! what was i missing.?!
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Well why would you want to have sex after having a child.?.?
lol
Anyway, maybe you are so stressed.Health Question & Answer

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no see your doc post baby depression Health Question & Answer

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