First time having sex. help!?!
Question: First time having sex. help!.?
me and my boyfriend are ready to have sex but i wanna know if theres anything i can use or do, to make the pain less painfull.
and i know that he should be slow and all that but im worried about the bleeding ect..
when i bleed during my first time, will it be when hes inside me or when we finish having sex.?
thank you.
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and i know that he should be slow and all that but im worried about the bleeding ect..
when i bleed during my first time, will it be when hes inside me or when we finish having sex.?
thank you.
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Answers:
Take it nice and slow. If its your 1st time its best not to go at it hammer-and-tong. Always wear a condom though. I don't know what "Merry Mary" is thinking but if you have unprotected sex even on your period you CAN still get pregnant so be protected when ever you have sex. There shouldn't be a lot of bleeding so try not to worry too much. If it is your 1st time your hymen may also break during sex. This is a mucous membrane which surrounds or partially covers the external vaginal opening, sounds horrible but it looks like clear fluid when it comes out and may even have a few "dark bits" in it. Again this wont be alot either no more then half a cup at most. But don't worry this is perfectly normal. You may want to put a towel down on the bed for the 1st time as it can get a little messy. Not very romantic i know but some times it can make you reassured afterwards with out seeing it all on the bed sheets.
Remember only do it when you are fully ready and always be protected.
Good luck
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Remember only do it when you are fully ready and always be protected.
Good luck
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Just make sure you're really aroused. You can even buy some lubricant to help things along. The slicker you are the less friction there'll be and you'll be okay. Remember to have him wear a condom.
As for the bleeding, you may not even bleed, and it's not going to be like a period bleeding. It'll be like you got a small cut. It could be either before or after.
Best wishes, be safe.
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Edit: Yes, the blood will be on the condom. It may or may not be visible. Where else do you think it'd go.?Health Question & Answer
As for the bleeding, you may not even bleed, and it's not going to be like a period bleeding. It'll be like you got a small cut. It could be either before or after.
Best wishes, be safe.
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Edit: Yes, the blood will be on the condom. It may or may not be visible. Where else do you think it'd go.?Health Question & Answer
Your grammar and spelling worries me, are you over 16.? If not really take my advice, wait! You will not regret it.
If you are over 16 and are really sure that you are ready for your first sexual experience, use a condom, relax take it slow and make damned sure he does. Many teenage boys are very selfish and are only concerned about what they get out of sex. They can be thoughtless and rough in their eagerness, don't let that happen and don't let yourself get hurt! You need to make it clear to him that if at ANY stage you say stop, it means stop NOW, not after he is done with you!
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If you are over 16 and are really sure that you are ready for your first sexual experience, use a condom, relax take it slow and make damned sure he does. Many teenage boys are very selfish and are only concerned about what they get out of sex. They can be thoughtless and rough in their eagerness, don't let that happen and don't let yourself get hurt! You need to make it clear to him that if at ANY stage you say stop, it means stop NOW, not after he is done with you!
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Im a girl myself so i no excatly how your feeling... im now 15! lost it when i was 13..
maybe wasnt such a good idea but i was basicly made to do it.
But you have to remember that not all girls bleed on there first time.
But just take it all slowly, use protection.
For me it hurt like hell there 1st time but then... after the first 5-6 times.
The pain started to fade.
Hope this helps.
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maybe wasnt such a good idea but i was basicly made to do it.
But you have to remember that not all girls bleed on there first time.
But just take it all slowly, use protection.
For me it hurt like hell there 1st time but then... after the first 5-6 times.
The pain started to fade.
Hope this helps.
Emmiie-xHealth Question & Answer
Hey,
First things first...please remember and use a condom! Even if you're on the pill.
Not everyone bleeds first time. If you do, it probably won't be an awful lot.
And yes it can be sore, but everyone is different. Fore-play helps take your mind off it. If you worry too much you'll be tense.
I promise it will get better!
Oh and if it does hurt...i agree with Dr Frank, just ask him to stop. He'll understand. You can tell him to stop at anytime.Health Question & Answer
First things first...please remember and use a condom! Even if you're on the pill.
Not everyone bleeds first time. If you do, it probably won't be an awful lot.
And yes it can be sore, but everyone is different. Fore-play helps take your mind off it. If you worry too much you'll be tense.
I promise it will get better!
Oh and if it does hurt...i agree with Dr Frank, just ask him to stop. He'll understand. You can tell him to stop at anytime.Health Question & Answer
If you do bleed, It will be when your having Sex, but it won't be too much!
If your a Virgin, Use alot of Lube!
As you said, Take it slow, A bit of Foreplay as well..
Good luck...Have fun ; ) Health Question & Answer
Just do what comes naturally do not make an appointment to have sex. Most people don;t bleed when they lose their virginity these day because they will have probably already have broken the hymen when they used a tampon.Health Question & Answer
first time sex is a very hit and miss thing. specially for the women. yes he will get covered in blood. but try and relax and enjoy it. after all it perfectly natural.Health Question & Answer
it'll be when your doing it.
but its only a tiny bit.
dont worry about the pain.
its nothing..
its actually enjoyable pain.
just make sure youre nice and lubed up.
=]
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but its only a tiny bit.
dont worry about the pain.
its nothing..
its actually enjoyable pain.
just make sure youre nice and lubed up.
=]
have funHealth Question & Answer
Don't do it, wait until you get marriedHealth Question & Answer
do it slowly and use a condomHealth Question & Answer
you bleed.? my goodness..ask your friends that have done it before and ask them to tell you how their first time went.Health Question & Answer
Plan to do it while you have your period. Then, you won't be able to distinguish menstrual bleeding from intercourse bleeding. Plus you can't get pregnant and this will put your man to the test of whether or not he's a keeper! Good luckHealth Question & Answer
Bleeding.? Only if you've bitten it off...Health Question & Answer