MY BOYFRIEND IS IN JAIL?!


Question: MY BOYFRIEND IS IN JAIL.?
my boyfriend has been in jail for 3 months . before he left things were a little rocky but we were together for sure. since then ive been holding him down and sending him money when i can . im 19 and hes 26 . ive been with him since i was 17. iust like every young woman and human I HAVE NEEDS that need to be fulilled . ive been masterbating to fight my urges but it's just not cutting it . the other day i lead into temptation and received oral sex from a guy numerous times that was my friend . we then had sex more than once. it was protected. AM I WRONG FOR THAT .? i have no intention of leaving my boyfriend.. i love him very much and im by his side all the way but im lonely and horny and he understands that but hes selfish because ive been there like no one else . his court date is dec 5th . SHOULD I TELL HIM OR NOHealth Question & Answer


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Omg, honey leave him! You are too young to deal with this bullshizz. And he's old...!Health Question & Answer

My boyfriend just got out of jail today, he did 3 months. I cheated on him while he was serving his time, and I regret it more than anything. I told my boyfriend the first chance I got. And he forgave me.... but yeah, I believe it is wrong. I however, cheated on my boyfriend for very different reasons. But I have definitely learned from my mistake, and hopefully you will be able to see what you did was wrong and learn from it. It's on you though, I think it's best you're honest with him.Health Question & Answer

Oh **** well i think you were wrong my boyfriend was recently in jail and I was so upset and lonely and horny. But I think that it was wrong to do what you did. Its totally cheating and I think if he found out he would be very upset. I think you should tell him but dont expect him to want to be with you anymore. He will probably feel betrayed but you know better how he will react
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I'm not saying this is your situation but many older guys who date younger girls are using them. Using them for money in jail, bail money, etc.

The other thing, don't say your staying with your bf if your getting oral from other guys. Just be straight up with people, if you going to do somehting like that tell your bf you have needs and if he continues to get locked up your not going to wait. Health Question & Answer

Depending on the kind of person he is and what he went to jail for, is what you should base whether or not you should tell him. In one respect I would say that you should be honest, but I really don't think that you should tell him. You should tell your friend your intentions, he needs to know that he can't expect anything long-term about it.Health Question & Answer

leave him because then you will have a baby with him and we taxpayers will have to feed, clothe and house you, your boyfriend, and the baby. this way all we have to do is feed house and clothe your boyfriend (who sounds like a GRANDE LOSER by the way). You're young and guess what, even if he wasn't in jail you would give in to temptation anyway. Health Question & Answer

If you cheated on him then you probably really dont love him as much as you think you do. 3 months is nothing. Try having a husband in the millitary, it sucks really really bad but there is no way I would ever cheat on him. I could not picture being with anyone else besides him. Besides if he is in jail, Im sure you could do better anyway. But you sound kind of immature for being 19Health Question & Answer

Before any guy ****** you or gave you oral sex, your boyfriend had already lost his butt virginty to a man and cheated on you first. he ahd already forgotten about you and found a sugardaddy at jail so dont think youre special, youre not. **** anyone you want ur husand doesnt even remember ur name let alone post sad questions on yahoo answers.Health Question & Answer

You don't *honestly* think that HE'S been faithful, do you.? It's more than likely he's been choking on a knob or two where he is. By the time he's released, I'd be suprised if he even likes the ladies anymore.

Oh, and if you REALLY want to help him, forget sending cash. Send lube. You're not the one "holding him down." That guy's name is probably something like "Tiny."Health Question & Answer

good lord woman, wake up and smell the coffee
ditch the loser to fend for himself and find your self a decent guy who won't land his butt in jail and expect you to take care of everything for him
find yourself a new lover hunnyHealth Question & Answer

YES you should tell him...and you're not married...pick up a bible--I KNOW this sounds corny and stuff but i am SERIOUS it will REALLY fix all your problems. REALLY. But w/e...don't listen to me. I don't care.

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I think you should be honest with him and i also think you have no business being in a relationship...being with someone means considering both your needs...you need sex and he needs a faithful gf...so you don't need to be with each other right nowHealth Question & Answer

will any good come from telling him.? i'm not agreeing with what you did,mind you,but i'm not sure it's wise to tell a con(no offense) that you cheated while he was locked up.

and stop sending him money.Health Question & Answer

WHAT IF YOU IN JAIL AND HE FUCKz AN0THER W0MAN.?
I DONT THINK ANYONE WOULD LIKE IT
I THINK U WRONG BUT AGAIN ITS YOU
[[I THINK]] IF U TELL HIM IT MIGHT RUIN UR RELATIONSHIP SINCE U SAID HE IS SELFISH.
AND LEAVE HIM!!! U TOO YOUNG!! GET SOME ONE YOUNGER!!! HE TOO OLD AND IN JAIL! U DONT NEED THAT!!!Health Question & Answer

You need to tell him. It's really not that hard, especially only 3 months. My boyfriend has been in prison for over a year and I've remained faithful to him. It's only fair.Health Question & Answer

tough, but ask yourself how many times your bf had sex in prison rather willing or non he'd never tell only you can answer your own question.Health Question & Answer

It's okay. He's probably been cheating on you too while he's been locked up, but probably not willingly. Keep getting busy. Im sure he will. Forcibly.Health Question & Answer

Yes tell him, then you will break up and you can do whatever you want....telling him or not you've already f*cked up.Health Question & Answer

You cheated on him. Plain and simple. You had relations with somebody other than him.
Tell him, and grow up.Health Question & Answer

If you really loved him you would have waited for him. Health Question & Answer

Lose the jailbird and move on while you still can.Health Question & Answer

YES YOU NEED TO HAVE AN OPEN RELATIONSHIPHealth Question & Answer

i whount i mean things happen i think i whould do the same possibly if my girl went to jail so just burry it and dont tell him ^.^Health Question & Answer

You're human you've got needs..Tell him if he ask. but I'd wait until he gets out.. Good luck.Health Question & Answer

I think you should keep it to yourself.Health Question & Answer

he must be somebody's girlfiend by now, so u can call it evenHealth Question & Answer

i am still not over the i am 19 and he is 26 part.Health Question & Answer

No...keep on cheatin. Health Question & Answer

...not very loyal are you...Health Question & Answer

yes u have to tell him =(Health Question & Answer

YUR BOYFRIEND IS SEXI IF HES IN JAIL
LMAO.?!!.?!.?!
YOUR HORNY.
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