How do you know if your daughter has had sex?!


Question: How do you know if your daughter has had sex.?
Last morning my daughter came in (when she was supposed to come home the night before at 9:00) ad she went straight ot her room. I've noticed her walking a bit weirdly, kind of like she's limping.? also, she seems very unhappy... I'm very scared that something happened to her, because she said she was with a friend, and he way a boy... I don't know if I should confront her, because for all I know she could have just hurt her leg and is unhappy about that, right.? You know, though, mothers sometimes just have that gut feeling that something wrong has happened... what do I do.?Health Question & Answer


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if you have that gut feeling trust it.

MOTHERS ALWAYS KNOW. and this is coming from a 17 year old daughter. my moms knows EVERYTHING, she doesn't even have to ask.

Honestly, it sounds like something more traumatic then just sex happened... you should really talk to her and make sure she wasn't forced or something.

the only thing i can tell you is don't be mad. when my mother found out all she did was yell and now i keep stuff from her that i didn't keep from her before. be honest, tell her you love her and you wont be mad. having an open relationship with her will make her feel A LOT better.Health Question & Answer

Just ask her. I know my mom thought i was haveing sex when i wasnt and that made for a bad arguement. Why not you talking to her about it and trying to make her feel as comfortabl as possible. Dont just come right out and ask her. Try and tell her like if she is yu wont be md but you woul dlike to keep an open and honest realationship with her, and if she ever needs anything i.e birth control, she can come to you about it no questions asked. (maybe just a few lol) . Good luck, and remember keep an opened mind.Health Question & Answer

The only way to TRULY know, is if she tells you. All you can do is ask, and as a mother you will know whether she is lying or not. But like the others have said, if you jump in to harshly or get to "crazy-mom" she wont feel comfortable about opening up to you.
Just try to be understanding and hope for the best!
good luck
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Tell her you noticed she was limping and she what she says. Hopefully, you know if she isn't telling you the truth. Tell her also you are concerned and wants the best for her. Mention you will support her no matter what. Health Question & Answer

not trying to be a b*tch, but why in the world were you not out searching for the night she didnt come home.?

Not saying you need to be strict, but don't just let her roam the world without rulesHealth Question & Answer

just ask her and explain to her you're concerned
dont go all mother crazy on her can then she will get mad

just simply ask why she seems so unhappy and why she was
limping
or
what happened when she went out that dayHealth Question & Answer

BE EXCEPTING and UNDERSTANDING reacting harshly or yelling making a fuss could make her not open up to you. be nice about it and ensure her that she has to be safe and teach her how.Health Question & Answer

You should ask her. But don't do it harshly.Health Question & Answer

Talk with her in a comforting, non accusing manner.
Are the two of you close.? Health Question & Answer



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