Please just answer, im embarrassed. Err :|?!
Question: Please just answer, im embarrassed. Err :|.?
Heyy well im 16 and there is only 1 way to put it!
I have big Labias, im sure thats what they are called.
I havent been with a guy and im really self conscious.
I dont want to go to the doctor because its not like im sick
or have cancer or anything.
I know for a fact NORMAL Vaginas do not look like mine.
There is wayy to much skin, i know its gross aha
but i really wanna be with a guy but i wont coz i dnt wanna
be judged or anything.
I have research on surgery but im not sure what age you have to be and how much it costs and if its even available in Australia.
I really need help. I have a good body and im not ugly and everyone always asks why i never have a boyfriend and this is the reason why but i wont tell anyone!
Please help thanks.
i no it could be funny towards some people but please no harsh comments! also i dont wanna talk to my mum becoz were not close and im not comfortable with talking to her about this.Health Question & Answer
I have big Labias, im sure thats what they are called.
I havent been with a guy and im really self conscious.
I dont want to go to the doctor because its not like im sick
or have cancer or anything.
I know for a fact NORMAL Vaginas do not look like mine.
There is wayy to much skin, i know its gross aha
but i really wanna be with a guy but i wont coz i dnt wanna
be judged or anything.
I have research on surgery but im not sure what age you have to be and how much it costs and if its even available in Australia.
I really need help. I have a good body and im not ugly and everyone always asks why i never have a boyfriend and this is the reason why but i wont tell anyone!
Please help thanks.
i no it could be funny towards some people but please no harsh comments! also i dont wanna talk to my mum becoz were not close and im not comfortable with talking to her about this.Health Question & Answer
Answers:
Ok well for starters, there is no such thing as a "normal" vagina. Every woman's body looks different! Some people have bigger labia, some have smaller. Some people have bigger inner lips than outer lips. Some have a ton of hair, some have hardly any. No two vaginas look the same, and there is absolutely NO pre-set version of what one should look like! I don't know where you've gotten your information from, but it's the WRONG source. Unless you have warts, sores, an abundance of yeast or oozing rashes, then your vagina looks perfectly FINE.
And here's a secret about guys....lol well it's not really a secret, but I guess it'll be news to you! As long as you don't have warts, sores, an abundance of yeast or oozing rashes, they don't much care what your pubic area looks like. Every guy has his preference of course, just like some guys prefer brunettes and some prefer redheads. And no guy that cares about you is going to "judge" you because your labia don't look exactly like the next girl's. Just like you wouldn't judge him because his penis isn't eight inches long. Health Question & Answer
And here's a secret about guys....lol well it's not really a secret, but I guess it'll be news to you! As long as you don't have warts, sores, an abundance of yeast or oozing rashes, they don't much care what your pubic area looks like. Every guy has his preference of course, just like some guys prefer brunettes and some prefer redheads. And no guy that cares about you is going to "judge" you because your labia don't look exactly like the next girl's. Just like you wouldn't judge him because his penis isn't eight inches long. Health Question & Answer
everyone's vagina is different. many women have big labias. it's not abnormal or weird, it's just how your body is made. you could get surgery but honestly, the guy that truly likes/loves you will not judge you for what you look like down there and hopefully those are the only guys you'd let see that part of you.Health Question & Answer
I should think vaginas are like penises in that they're all different.So I don't believe that will affect your chances of getting a boyfriend.
It's a confidence thing I suppose,but once you get over that you'll wonder why you worried about it in the first place.As a guy a "perfect" vagina,whatever that is, is not that high up on my list of things I would look for in a woman.Health Question & Answer
It's a confidence thing I suppose,but once you get over that you'll wonder why you worried about it in the first place.As a guy a "perfect" vagina,whatever that is, is not that high up on my list of things I would look for in a woman.Health Question & Answer
I have the same thing as you - but my husband actually thinks they're very beautiful. Actually, this is embarrassing, but he did draw an artpiece of it once (he thought it was that beautiful) and it kind of looked like a flower. So some guys really like it! Most guys will either like it or not care.Health Question & Answer
In the United States, you have to be at least 18 years old. Or have your parents permission, but that's out since you aren't comfortable talking with your mom about it. In the U.S., it costs around $5,000. If you start saving money now, maybe you could have enough $$ to have it done when you're old enough. Good luck.Health Question & Answer
I dont think there is one specific type of "Normal" vagina, or what one is supposed to look like. If a guy wants to be w/ you, what you look like(or what IT looks like :)) shouldn't matter. If it becomes a health issue, then you should consider getting it fixed.Health Question & Answer
well just go out with the guy its not like he will see it they day you start going out
and i would look into it but i think you need a adult or at least wait until your 18 or 20
but im on the other side of the world so im not sure about finding one in Australia!
hope this helps Health Question & Answer
and i would look into it but i think you need a adult or at least wait until your 18 or 20
but im on the other side of the world so im not sure about finding one in Australia!
hope this helps Health Question & Answer
Just because he's your boyfriend doesn't mean he should see that part of you anyway. Wait until you're married when you guys get physical for the first time, and if he notices (which I doubt) too late to back out, you're married!Health Question & Answer
omg i have the same problem! i know its pretty pointless that im answering this with no answer but im just telling you that you are not alone. :)Health Question & Answer
Don't worry. There is no "normal" vagina. Every one varies and so do breasts. Large labia aren't really a problem, and you don't really need surgery.
You're sixteen, which is a little too young to have sex in my opinion, because you have yet to completely mature mentally and physically. However, if you're thinking guys don't like large labia, you're wrong. If a guy ever teases you about it, he's an idiot. Large labia feel better on the penis because there is a greater surface area to envelope him. Many have a fetish for it! And surgery could also lessen the pleasure you feel in sex later on because there are so many nerve endings there.
You shouldn't be so self-conscious about it. Be proud of your body. Health Question & Answer
You're sixteen, which is a little too young to have sex in my opinion, because you have yet to completely mature mentally and physically. However, if you're thinking guys don't like large labia, you're wrong. If a guy ever teases you about it, he's an idiot. Large labia feel better on the penis because there is a greater surface area to envelope him. Many have a fetish for it! And surgery could also lessen the pleasure you feel in sex later on because there are so many nerve endings there.
You shouldn't be so self-conscious about it. Be proud of your body. Health Question & Answer