What do you normally feel during an orgasm?!


Question: What do you normally feel during an orgasm.?
does it depend on concentration to have an orgasm or is it something that your partner should do.?.?Health Question & Answer


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Orgasm is not often something that just *happens*... it's something you and your body *do*. Intentionally.

An orgasm is all the things you feel and all the things that happen with your body at the peak of sexual arousal and pleasure. It's a reflex we're all born with (just like knee jerks and sneezes) that our bodies have in response to sexual stimulation. You will *definitely* know when you have one. There's nothing else anywhere in human experience that feels that way.

It can take a girl or woman anywhere from a few seconds to a couple of hours to reach orgasm. Both of these are pretty unusual but perfectly normal, and anything in between is just fine... and most can get there in much less than 10 minutes when they masturbate. Almost a third of all girls have been masturbating to orgasm at least occasionally for half their lives or more by the age of 12.

Just before orgasm, you might have a feeling a bit like you have to pee, but it's not quite the same, and when your orgasm first happens, there'll be a very strong (sometimes intense and *powerful*), warm and sometimes tingly feeling that spreads from your clitoris to your vagina and then through your whole lower body. Then very quickly your clitoris, your vagina, your crotch muscles and your butt-hole will squeeze and pulse a few times while that feeling spreads all over you.

During all this, your toes will probably curl, you might feel like you need to hold your breath or like you have to breathe really fast, your body will want to tense up and might jerk or shake or shiver, and you might make some noises (grunts, gasps, groans or cries) that you can't really control. You might "squirt" or "ejaculate" a lot of fluid from your urethra (don't worry, it's not pee). The physical and emotional pleasure that you'll feel everywhere at the same time is just about the best feeling a human body can have.

(Everything you "might" feel or do above isn't always going to happen... some orgasms are much less overwhelming than just *very* pleasureable.)

As that feeling becomes more gentle and starts to go away (after maybe 5 to 20 seconds), your whole body will begin to relax, your skin will flush pinker (especially over your chest) and you might feel sort of like having a nap... or like just lying there and letting your mind drift... or even like doing it again (and again... etc) right away.

It's not often, but it *can* happen sometimes that there'll be no interruption at all between several orgasms in a row, and it can feel like one single orgasm... intense physical pleasure and whole-body tension and release that can last anywhere from 30 or 40 seconds to several minutes.

If you can have orgasms dependably when you masturbate, you can have them dependably when you have sex with a partner.

Just incorporate the sorts of touch you use when masturbating into your sexual partnership. Show him - *teach* him - what works best for you and how to do it. You can start there and experiment ad infinitum with sex positions and styles of movement that work for you in the same way.

If you *don't* have orgasms alone... it's time you learned: how's your man gonna know how to get the work together with you if *you* don't even know what the job is.?

I can't tell you every step there is to have an orgasm... every girl and woman is different, and it would take way longer for me to type it all out than it would for you to give yourself one... but one thing you can do to find out is check out these webpages:

http://www.clitical.com/female-masturbat...
http://www.clitical.com/female-masturbat...

Read the pages all the way through, and try some of the things suggested. Take your time (it might take a whole afternoon the first time), and just enjoy learning what feels best for you. Sooner or later, you'll have an orgasm in one or more of these ways, and they get better each time if you're one of those lucky girls who can have them again and again.

Then you'll know what one is and how to have one, for sure.

Have fun and don't worry. Masturbation is having sex with the only person you'll ever meet who knows *exactly* what you feel and what you like, even if that changes every second. It's normal and healthy, learning what pleases you sexually is good for you, and when it comes to having sex with the one you *want*, you'll be able to tell them (better yet, to show them) the things you like best so you can enjoy the very best of it together.Health Question & Answer

A woman's ability to orgasm is moreso on them than their partner. It really just depends on a person's mood, which goes into the amount of pleasure their getting out of the sexual experience. Every person is different, so talk to your partner and ask them what they like, often times its communicated what their like through their actions and reactions. Orgasms come naturally and feel like an amazing amount of energy building up in your body until you can't hold it anymore and then it's a complete surge.Health Question & Answer

U will never achieve an orgasm if u think about it... too much concentration will ruin it.. An orgasm in an unexplainable intense moment. It is a 'climax'. The feeling is so wonderful, its sort of like a rush. Ur body gets tense and sensitive.. Im sorry I don't realy know how else to explain it. But its wonderful and ull know wen ur having one. Once u get to know ur body, and wut turns u on/off u will begin to have these wondeful total body experiences.Health Question & Answer

my v-area feels like its got a heart beat and my muscles in my v-area and anus and stomach and face ahah all contract and omg its amazing ahah. i dont need to concentrate really to get it, it just happens with stimulationHealth Question & Answer

I feel relaxed and a sense of satisfaction..but I really love those time to come again and again..I feel manly.thanksHealth Question & Answer

i feel throbbing....not pain, like a good kind of throbbing.Health Question & Answer



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