Pressure pain during sex?!


Question: Pressure pain during sex.?
My boyfriend of 3 years and i were having sex yesterday and i felt so uncomfortable because i started feeling pressure on my lower area of like my stomach and it only hurt while doing it..before that the last time we did it had been about a week or two ago but it was normal . Why could i have this pain.?Health Question & Answer


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Were you fully aroused or was your mind else where.? Did he go inside of you before you were fully ready.?

Not sure if you're really highly aroused or if that's an issue.? Try having an orgasm BEFORE attempting sexual intercourse or manual sex. In other words, engage in other sexual activities with your partner which bring you to orgasm first, then right afterwards, try vaginal entry.


If your answer to this is:
a) You haven't had an orgasm yet or found out how to reach orgasm: then invest some time and energy, solo and with your partner, in finding that out well before getting to intercourse. You can even add a smaller amount of vaginal entry in that mix when exploring, via just a gentle finger or smaller toy, if you like.


b) Your partner isn't willing to hold off on intercourse or spend time exploring what does feel good and does bring you pleasure and/or orgasm: ditch that partner if a couple honest talks don't change that.

Seriously. If your partner isn't will to respect you and insure mutual pleasure, he is not worth having.


If you discover that orgasm before intercourse or other vaginal entry makes the pain go poofie, then it's safe to assume that you haven't been aroused enough when you've tried before. So, you can then focus more on getting you aroused, or heck, make a habit of getting to orgasm first before vaginal sex.



also - Why didn't you speak up when you felt uncomfortable.?.?.?

BE VERBAL AND CLEAR when you're not feeling good. Don't fake pleasure or say something feels okay when it doesn't, and don't just hope things will improve magically on their own.

If you don't feel ready or able to communicate during or about sex with a partner pretty honestly yet, then it's just not wise to engage in sex with a partner until you can.


Respect yourself. Caring for and honoring your body and saying no to something that hurts will make them honor and respect you too.Health Question & Answer

This maybe a normal pain due to roughness.

But it could be more. So before I freak you out go get checked out.

My friend descibed the same feeling and after postponing her drs. appointment for months due to not have the money.. she was diagnosed with cervical cancerHealth Question & Answer

Maybe he was too far inside of you.Health Question & Answer



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