Is there a chance he can forgive me?!


Question: Is there a chance he can forgive me.?
I am 25 and my husband is 28, we have been married for 4 years. I am crazy about him in every way as is he. About 2 months ago i made the biggest mistake of my life, i had a one night stand.I have been under a lot of stress lately as my dad is being released from jail & wants to be part of my life(he is very dangerous) i don't want anything to do with him and i lost a baby in September. I told my husband about it myself & he let rip at me which is understandable he also hit me across the face in a act of rage(his only time to do it) but said he never wants to lose me. I have been regretting it & kicking myself over it & am doing everything to win his trust back. He can bearly touch me anymore & wont hold my hand let alone have a proper conversation with me if is does say something to me he yells, although he still sleeps with me when he feels like it. If he cant even talk to me then why is he sleeping with me.? He is the only stable man i have in my life as my dad has been in jail since i was a child & my mother died of an overdose when i was 16, so he has always been there for me and i owe him everything, i need him. i have taking full responsibility for what i have done.

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Answers:
its hard to really say.

considering the fact that he hasnt thrown you out of left himself may be a really good sign for you.

here is the thing, its possible to get past this. however you are going to have to be patient with him, it is up to you as well to decide if you are going to forgive him for hitting you.

that is not right of him to do, you must be careful about that becasue he cant ride out that as an excuse to hit you.

im sorry to hear that your family life has been bad but you also have to understand that you have terribly hurt him (i think you already do though)

all i can say is be careful, but if everything continues to be unstable then you are going to have to seek some other options.Health Question & Answer

Your best bet is a marital counselor.

His reactions to your infidelity are understandable, but inappropriate.Health Question & Answer



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