Why am I unable to go forward.?!
Question: and confront my fiance with major issues? I asked a question a few days ago on this site and I know what I need to say and do, but I cannot for the life of me, make myself do it. I am so terrified it will drive him away. I don't know where these feelings of desperation are coming from. I am a very stable and independant person and have never been incapable of effective communication. I am literally dumb struck that I cannot accomplish this task. Any suggestions on how to get through this with my sanity in tact?
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I don't know what your other question was but to this i sort of know just what your going through. Your in love with the guy and your confronting him with some issues that you know he'll be hurt by. and in reality, you don't want to hurt him. My advice to you is be yourself, that stable, independant woman you are. if these issues, like you say may drive him away, then he really didn't love you enough to let you into his life all the way. Maybe your dumbstruck because you know deep down that this will end your relationship that your trying so hard to keep afloat. a relationship is a two-way street, not a one-way street and one person is headed the wrong way. Be strong and just confront him. It will either make or break the relationship. Sometimes hardship in a relationship makes the relationship even stronger and bring the two of you closer than ever before.
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Try doing it when you're in a position (literally) where you are not facing him, like on the couch watching a show or in the car. Sometimes this makes it easier because the fear of seeing his reaction is gone. It won't take the butterflies away, but it will help.
okay u are worried u will make him mad. u are getting ready to marry this man and if there is anything anything at all wrong, u need to confront him because it is easier to leave now than it is when u are married! best of luck honey
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Maybe you are afraid to lose him. But if you confront him and you are right or wrong your relationship will only get stronger. Besides, both of you have the same rights and the right to exercise these rights at any time. The person we love is one we should never be afraid of regardless of what the subject may be. If you are this afraid of the one you love, may be you should reconsider your future with this person.
Is it a "good" relationship when you are not yourself? When you feel out of control of you is it a sign that you love him. I would think that a sign that you love someone was that - without even thinking about it - you se what needs to be done and do it. If you really lose him for being yourself then he's Mr. Wrong!
Did you know that 56% of first marriages end in divorce? WOW! I wonder why? ,Whatever you do DON'T confront him and drive him away because I'm sure he's really good looking.
Take a deep breath and tell him that you have some things that you would like to talk about with him. Calmly, tell him what you are feeling, and giving him a chance to explain how he feels as well. Whatever you do, don't start yelling and throwing around accusations.
Hope it helps and good luck!
it seems that you are obsess of your fiance.be positive try to put confidence in your fiance and leave negative thinking.
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