Somewhat personal, but I would like to know?!
Question: Sexually, I know the clitoris is a very easy area to stimulate. I have never had an orgasm from it, not with thouching or oral, and it is starting to frustrate me. It kind of feels good, but I know could feel a lot better. I feel like the nerves are dull. Is there any cause and effect for this, is it normal that some people don't have much feeling, is it a disorder?
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Waitaminnit. A question about the sexual functions of the human body that is spelled correctly, and not being asked by someone in middle school. Ma'am, do you mind if I worship you for a minute?
Depending on your age, the nerves in your lower area may have been dulled somewhat (as you mentioned), but another possibility could be STD's or other problems that were passed on to you by your parents. Check with your doctor, Im sure he/she has a bit more information on the subject than I do.
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Some women with small clits have a hards time to orgazim. It is just rthe size. But you could ask your doctor
you just need to keep trying.try some lube too
it's normal to have that sometimes
You should make an appointment with your GYN Dr. from there they may refer you to a specialist.
Life to short too live with a worry. Find a specialist in a local family planning clinic or see your Doctor for a referal. Don't be embarrased.
Best of luck.
it is all in the mind not your clit
It could be any number of reasons, Std, small clitoral size, or just inexperience. If you are not too embarassed (and you shouldn't be) then try masturbation experimentation. Use your finger, a vibrator, a clitoral stimulator etc, and find what gives you pleasure. It can open up a whole new world for you. If nothing works, then mention your concern to your OB/GYN at your next visit. They can shed more insight as to whether it is a medical problem or not.
you are putting to much thought into it, hold off and just relax, do it by yourself first, in the tub or in the bed, make up a fantasy and try that
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