when is a woman regarded as overweight. does she loose her beauty as she gains w!
Question: acording to statistics, a greater proportion of the female population is of the larger size, so when is the fashion industry, media etc going to realise that normal people are not like those you see on the catwalk.
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You have presented an interesting question. The opinion that I have is that physical beauty is fleeting to those that see only the outside, and the personality that is beautiful is the only beauty that really lasts. It is true that as a woman ages and for those that start families there is a tendency to gain weight but this shouldn't stop them from being beautiful to the person they have paired with and I would suggest that it doesn't. As to the models that showcase fashion it can be pointed out that many are indeed beautiful, however some have a wraith like appearance and can (to my eye anyway) appear androgynous. When looking to the fashion and modeling world as a format for accepted beauty it is worth keeping in mind that homosexual men play an influential role in the designs and the presentation of the clothing as well as the selection of which models will be employed, this is not of course to suggest that the entire fashion industry is overseen by gay culture, only to point out that the the tall, thin, and boyish look that some models display could be interpreted as a standard of beauty that appeals to a smaller(but with every right to be here too) segment of the society. If one looks to magazines such as Playboy it is readily observable that the models are more full bodied and curvaceous. One may look to classicial art as well to observe what beauty in the female form can be expressed as, and again it is readily observable that the women in many of these masterpieces are full bodied and sensual. I would regard a woman to be overweight when her health and self esteem were at risk, and it would be in the best interest of our societies to accept that this is a matter for the individual woman and her medical practitioner to decide. Thank you for raising this issue.
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being overweight and unattractive are two very different things. someone can be skinny and ugly and overweight and beautiful
Yes, when the weights increases, the beauty of body is decreases. Weight here I mentioned is Fat. Fatty ladies may have good looking face, but their cuts and curves will loose.
Well if you are concerned about being overweight possibly it is only you who will be aware of it, although I would suggest asking your family doctor what is to much for your height and body structure.
With respect to beauty, that my friend is in the eye of the beholder, there are those persons who will only date someone whom they are attracted to, and will make fun of people who are overweight, however there are other people who find overweight persons attractive.
And then there others who do not care about what you look like on the outside at all, as they look at a persons inner beauty, and nothing can strip a person of that.
I was married twice, first to a beautiful woman who was ugly, and the second time to a ugly woman who was beautiful, as I wanted my marriage to last the second time around, and I felt that inner beauty was most important, and I believed that song that says if you want to be married for the rest of your life go and make a ugly woman your wife.
Well it did not work, as with respect to my second wife, she found me attractive, and pretended to be someone she was not, and actually told me that three years after we were married because she was tired of putting up the facade.
Once she showed herself to me to be the person which she really was, I realized that she was ugly on the inside also, and that was most shocking because I was married to a woman who was ugly to the bone, in every way, and even though we had a family at that point in time, she wished to hang out at bars with other men, and later found another and divorced me, it was not good for our children, however I was released from my suffering as I would have never divorced her for any reason.
People tend to age when they gain weight, male or female. Look at it in a different perspective, just think of your health before beauty, but healthy people are usually beautiful. And it's hard work and discipline to have a well toned physique.
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