why cant i tolerate people not trying there hardest in anything, especially spor!
Question: today i was playin with my friend, cuzin, and brother, 2on 2 in basketball, my brother just was throwing up deep 3 point shots, and he blows. so i refused to pass, scored every point and won the game, and then basically ripped him apart. i feel bad, but i just hate when people dont try there hardest and play like it might be the last time they do something
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You can't tolerate them because you are intolerant.
Terry
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Not a big fan of the NBA I see. Well, some people have that competitive spirit and some don't. I have it too, especially if there is money on the line. Everything isn't about winning or losing though. Sometimes it's all about how you played not if your team won. You have to be open to other people's priorities. That's how he plays, maybe he only plays for fun, which for him if he threw up a hailmary shot and hit it is very exciting. Maybe he is truly doing his best, everyone might not understand the game as well as you do.
You seem very passionate when playing sports and it is possible that they don't feel the same way as you. You could either find people who are as serious as you when you play basketball or you can just remind yourself that when you play ball with them it is going to be more laid back.
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