Condom's suck!?!
Question: So i seem to "lose the hardness" about 10 minutes in with my GF, and i cant get it back unless i take the condom off, and then im good to go, but that is risky business. Any ideas?
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Yes. My wife says Yes also. Bare back all the way.
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Concentrate.HIV sucks more!
Yes they do! Just pull out really quick. And tell her to go on Birth Control.
use really thin and tight condoms so you feel them less
work on it, bud.STDs suck alot worse!
p.s. get thinner latex condoms
jerk it with a condom till you can stay hard.
herpes sucks more too
Go spend a quarter or two in the toy machine that has the super stretchy bracelets.
I don't believe in them at all.it takes me too long to get there anyway without one
crabs anyone?
birth control pills? do it orally? get plastic surgery?
put your mind there.
Practice and BC is always a good idea even with the condom/s. Low Ortho Tricyclen seems to be the most popular and least side effects.
try the lambskin ones, they stink like heck but you can barely tell the difference, they feel a 100x better than latex.
use ur hand!
tell her to get on birth control
you're obviously thinking about something other than the business at hand to lose your erection -- either that or you're using condoms as thick as a mouse pad :) Try some of the condom brands that are thinner, promising "more feeling" -- just be careful not to break them as they are a bit more fragile. Or try some viagra -- that'll keep you going for more than 10 minutes even if you think about your mother ;-)
both you and your gf get test for hiv/std. If both "clean" she can get on birthcontrol. then you dont need condoms as long as you are both faithful to each other
Marry her.be monagamous.her too.and you won't need to use a condom.
what are you worried about with your gf? dieseases? you shouldnt be having sex without a commited relationship anyhow. If your worried she can get pregnant? what are your other options for bc. pill, foam, diaghphrams, etc. natural family planning? so if she is good enough to be your gf and to have sex with, guess she isnt good enough to reproduce with? does she want kids, sounds like she dont care if she does or not. if she cared she should use something, atleast take turns
yes, if your not gonna sack it, whack it.or risky business will prevail.smiles
If you lose the stiffness maybe she would be willing to play with it a little until you get a rise out of it again. Could be that you have ED and may want to have it checked out. Nothing wrong with making sure. Besides it ou do have a problem the doctor will be better then a bunch of yahooies giving you advice.
I would suggest to get a condom that supplies the user with added sensations (warmness) etc. To not use protection could end up with a pregnancy or disease.
I don't like them either. My bf says that wearing a condom is like washing dishes with latex gloves. You know its wet but you just can't feel it.LOL good luck
If she is on the pill, honestly you don't need to use one. Specially if you are both exclusive. Otherwise you could get her to wear the female condom.
Condoms suck even for women. There are deffernt condoms to choose from they maybe be more effective in feeling like there is nothing on. Or if your in a serious relationship with one person you can ask the chick to use other forms of protection. If you not in a serious relationship and going to be with more then one chick. the back up plan is when your by your self try masterbating with a condom on. You will get use to reaching pleasure then with them on and you will find out what works to excite you with it on. You may just be focusing to much on the down side of having a condom on them getting off,
thats my ideas..lol
Use thinner condoms. Some of them are ribbed (although I don't think it really makes a difference - but you can always try).
If you've been with your GF for more than 3 months, you could do the test - if she's willing to take the pill.
Do not get tighter condoms as it will cut the blood flow and you won't be able to feel anything.
You can try to put some lube in the "teat" (not sure it's the right word). Be careful not to put too much and to put the condom on very fast as otherwise, the lube might slide along your penis, making it easier for the condom to slip (try it a few times when you're alone). It's supposed to give you more sensations.
Otherwise, just bring plenty of condoms and put one back on when you're ready to go.
(I know condoms suck, even for girls, but it's better than getting an STD or getting pregnant)
if the condom is too tight it can constrict the blood flow to the penis, and thus you lose the erection. By removing it you allow blood to flow again. Try using a little bigger condomn that doesn't restrict you so much.
you could always pull out before you come, but thats really risky, and its a really big connection with your partner when you come in them. if she's in bc then I really wouldn't worry about it. There;s always female condoms but let me tell you, they are horrible for the girl.. just pull out dear. or come in her, but don't make a habit of it. oral is better than sex, or so I've heard anyway
Use a ribbed condom, and turn it inside out so it's for YOUR pleasure.f*** her. Literally :)
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