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Question: My g/f has reoccuring nightmares every night due to the abuse she suffered growing up by her stepdad. She won't get councelling. What can I do to help her? She says she never remembers her nightmares.
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I have problems in life with nightmares(not due to abuse, but bullying and abuse from school years and other things) and the way I'm on the way to controlling them of the following things i hvae had done!

1. Go to a hypnotist (sounds weird but they can get into the psyche of the mind and unblock things and allsorts) Good for them to tell you what you want to do and what you will do!
2. The dreams or nightmares your girlfriend has, she does remember it's just they can be extremely frightening(example one could be stabbing you to death, hence why she wouldn't want to tell you), in fact let her tell you briefly and write them down as their are people who can intrepret them! I know people who do this and had mine done and it changed my life in the last year!
3. Councelling is something she will have to do it's hard because you feel like a nut case, but if she doesn't she will have these continued problems! R u in england or USA
in england u get 8 free concelling sessions through the NHS, in USA I'm not too sure! (Sorry)
4. Support her it will be differcult but if you love her, then it will be okay and you will get through it!
5. Also try to speak to spirtual people and get help that way(not religious, please don't make that mistake no christians,buddists,scientolog. muslims, hindu and the rest of the religions) The spirtual people won't charge you alot of money if they do they are fake, please beware!

Hope this helps even if you don't choose my answer contact me and i will go into more detail on richardjamesuk@yahoo.com

Other Answers:
Get her to write them down, im sure she probably does remember them but writing them down will help her get it off her chest
well, you should really talk it through
you can't she doesnt want to face them .you maybe causing more harm than good.
Offer to go to counseling with her; provide that support.

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