How can i help my friend getting over her second miscarriage in under a year?!
Question: we live 500 miles apart so its mainly a phone and
texting emailing friendship
can anyone who has been through the same say what helped them or recommend any good websites? thanks!
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Just keep being a friend. Try staying in contact, Pray for her, and don't be judgemental about any thing she might say. Encourage her to talk to her husband. this will help her alot if she can share her pain, and learn to confide her feelings with him. A friend of mine had 4 miscarriages in a 5 year period. At one point her depression was so severe she was considering having affairs just to feel sexy again. she considered suicide as well as started drinking and acting totally different to hide her pain. Her mistake was not to talk to her husband. She never once told him how she felt. then when she started fights for no reason over little things he was clueless about what was really bothering her.
They finally began receiving counciling and now they are both happy and have finally brought 3 children into this world.
God's delays are not his denials.
Scott
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Pray for her. Tell her that there is a reason, even if you don't know it yet, or she doesn't know it yet. Someday, it will make sense. Tell her you are praying for her. if either of you aren't religious, it's ok. Religion can be a crutch to difficulties, but a relationship with Jesus can cure any heartbreak.
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I had a friend lose both of her twins after a seven month pregnancy on Christmas. Her faith has sustained her through it.
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