my future be is addict to alcohol , i did know how to change him.please help me!
Question: he addict through alhocol.I dn't want to let him go.He is nice guy.I want him to forget the bad habit.
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You can not change him. he will have to want to quit for his self. no one else. tell him how you feel. do not listen to well intended false promises that he will not be able to keep. good men that are alcoholics are heart breakers.
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its impossible.let him goo
If he actually is ADDICTED to alcohol.there is no changing him.Alcohol Addiction is a disease. It is not something that you can ever change in a person.some are able to controll it (barely) through rehabilitation and support groups.and even therapy.but the urge will always be there. And the habit always seems to come back out in times of stress and worry. So sweetie if your not ready for this.and no woman really is.then get out now before you both get hurt. He is someone who needs a lot of help and more than likely you are not ready to offer it. Plus, alcoholics have a lot of problems with physical abuse. And you do not need to be in a relationship that puts you in danger. Trust me, my dad has been fighting an alcohol and substance abuse addiction for the past twenty years. Sometimes he is ok.and others he will call me drunk off his *** at two in the morning. There will never be a happy medium. Your guy will never be able to simply be a social drinker.he does not even need to be around the temptation.which means that you can never have alcohol in your home.you can not go to clubs or parties where alcohol will be served..and before you can even begin to set these ground rules HE has to make up his mind that he wants to be helped and try to overcome his illness. You cant make him change.he has to want it.and it will take years and years of hard work and maintenance.ARE YOU READY TO HANDLE THAT? Think before you jump.
I dont know if you talk to him already about stopping into drinking.,,,but if not,,talk to him and ask him to stop drinking,,,or just drink moderately you know with limitation.anyways addiction is really hard to control..its still you who can help him.invite him to an alternative things or hobby that he can do. where he can be focused. to atleast can get rid of him of drinking alcohol..and make him forget that he longs for alcohol.thinks of the posible ways that you think he can add up to his daily activities to get rid of drinking
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