i hate my spouse what shall i do?!
Question: 3 years married
no kids
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leave! r see a councilor. but if u truly hate them then is it really worth it? y stay in a relationship where u arent happy? even if the other person is happy u will grow to resent them.
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well then why not separate
divorce no children too worry about. If your not happy but want to improve the relationship see a family therapist I heard they help
Seems like you know the answer to that one, no kids, hate.
Interesting, why did you choose him in the first place?
Bail now while there's no kids.
You and me both. Seek the advise of a lawyer or a counselor.
If you don't love your spouse.
Instead of love you hate your spouse then it is better to get divorce.
"Hate" seems like a strong verb to use when talking about your spouse.. If you really do hate him, then the solution is simple: divorce/separation! Be free again, and live your life! Life is too short to be unhappy!
Well time to move on than. i mean really tho if you have no feeling for the one you are supposed to love with all your heart time to get out of there because you are not sparing anyones feelings by staying. Hate is a horrible word to say about someone you were supposed to be there for in sickness and in health. It is just wrong that you are still there what if the shoe was on the other foot how would you feel? do the right thing. good luck
...DIVORCE..is the ANSWER..DAAAw
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If your not happy now. Then that should be a sign.. You have no kids right now so you should really think about leaving if your not happy and don't want to work on it. If you do end up having children with this man it wouldn't be fair to the kids. If your not happy your children will sense this.
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I come from a dysfunctional family. I've seen it first hand..
well one thing is good about it you have no kids......but do you really hate him or just not love him.....sometimes we all feel that way about our spouses....love them but don't like them....
hope things work out for ya.
try counseling, or if he is abusive then get out now and please use protection so that you dont drag kids into the mess. Just be responsible and you will be fine.
This is a serious matter and must not be taken lightly. I would sleep with her sister.
If you really hate your spouse and there are no children involved,you need to ask yourself Why you are still together.Are you scared to leave?Does the thought of your spouse being with someone else bother you?Are you afraid of being by yourself? Search yourself for these answers and what ever you come up with maybe both of you should seek marrige counsiling.I don't think you Hate your spouse,I think maybe both of you have hit a rough spot in your marrige. what ever you do i wish you the best of luck
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