What is the best way to control anger especially towards kids.?!
Question: Sometimes baby or kids love to cried and I can't stand on that.
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Pawn those kids off on some other sucker. Don't waste your life.
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walk away
try to understand that they can not express pain the way we can. Try talking to them in a calm manner. children can sense tension and fear believe it or not. I always try to reflect how I felt when I was younger to deal with my young neice and nephuew. Not always easy but the results of patience is very rewarding.
Try to remember that it's not personal, they aren't doing it just to piss you off. It's there only means of communication right now.
Babies or kids usually cry for a reason Like wet tired or hungry try to find out what's wrong and take action Each cry is slightly different You will just know after awhile
Children are in such different developmental stages than adults that it can be hard to communicate with them or understand them when they get upset. Usually, when I child is upset, you must remember that they have needs that are not being met. Whether it is an infant who needs to be fed, or a 4-year-old who is in emotional need due to lack of attention, or a 6-year-old who needs clear boundaries.
The best way to stay calm is to remember that you are the adult, and you are in control. If you get upset while they are upset, you only make things worse. Instead, try getting down and meeting the child at eye level, speaking to them in calm, clear words about what you are going to do and what you expect of them. When I child throws a fit, you only make it worse if you react. Simply be firm in your decisions, but calmly. If you get angry and then give into a tantrum just because you're too upset to deal with it, the child will learn that tantrums work and that they can use your frustration for their own benefit.
I hope this helps.
its better for u not to be calm to your kids all the time.
when they understand that what kind of behave will make you
angry, they will avoid doing that again.
For the first 3months after my daughter was born all she did was cry, I tried everything, fed her, burped her, changed her, rocked her, held her in every known postion.. anything, but all she would do was cry. I found the best thing to do after I tried all the basics was to put her to bed and let her cry herself out. I would turn up the radio and/or step out of the house into the yard and read a book or something. I was told to do this by the Dr., after all her needs were met and if she was still crying, there was nothing I could do to stop her and I needed my sanity. After 3 months, she just was better, I guess it is what they called colic. How old are your kids? (Different things work at different ages, my kids are 8yrs and 10yrs old now)... As my kids got older if there was something wrong when they cried, I would do what I could to fix it, or help them understand their situation. If they cried because they wanted something, were mad, or because they were just being sassy I would tell them that crying is fine but you don't need to let the world know, and that they could go to their rooms, close the door and cry in the pillow to let out their anger or frustration. (that way they could vent their frustrations and I didn't have to get stressed hearing it)
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