people say that i was weird, in how to carry and choose clothes, and unsmart-loo!
Question: people especially my friends say that i don't know how to choose and carry clothes. according to them i was like a lady before christ and like an ugly duckling. if theres a party where i attented, theres no boys who want to escort me even to dance with me i was like a wallflower.it makes me to hate my self.
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Society is harsh and outrageous with their accusations, they discriminate the cover of the book instead of its contence.
I call myself random or weird as well, so i know where your coming from. I'm the one that is able to go out in public wearing a shirt that i printed with a political saying on it. I"m only 15 and I want to camp outside Parliament house and pro-test about the obsessed things that john Howard has and is doing.
I don't think that you need to improve your looks you just need to do a revaluation on the type of friends you have. If they are insulting you they are actually properly amazed about your guts to be able to wear your clothing the way you like it.
A few tips:
1 Be self Confidant(eg. when you go out dancing pull a guy out to dance don't make them come to you, they are properly just afraid.)
2 you can be as weird as you like, so long it actually colour matches.
3 Be your self don't care about what other people think.
4 You need at least one friend you can cry on their shoulder and they won't judge or change you. Cos even if you seem self confidant you will always have a voice inside your head saying your not.(DON'T LISTEN)
5 Do things your way not a dolly magazine way! you are your own person.
Hope this has helped you because i just had this talk with my best friend sister last night, on the exact same subject.
Ciao Linda
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keep the clothes - dump the friends xxx
who cares what everyone thinks dress how you want
Why do you want to look like everyone else?
Neh. According to looks, they probably THINK they are prettier then you. But seriously, you character is better then them (i think). To look pretty, juz be confident and take wadeva you wear as your STYLE, your FASHION. And yea. Dump your friends XD
unique is great :) they're probably jealous because u're unique not like them that wanna wear wat everyone else is wearing i said dump ur friends and get better friends who doesn't think like that xD
Friends don't say things like that, they are supposed to encourage you and help you.
Everyone has a style. But its all about how you feel in those clothes and how confident you are.
Don't dress for other people, think about yourself and how you like to dress. Once you dress to your own liking, you will be more confident and feel sexy.
Your attitude on the inside will affect your attitude on the outside. if you feel sexy inside, you will find that people will start looking at you cause, you will look sexy to them.
Remeber Girl, don't dress for other people, dress for yourself and feel sexy and love your self. YOU GO GIRL!
it doesnt matter.are they really your friends?..,last time i checked friends should be very supportive. and i think having ur own style is the coolest,.. don't worry about the party boys.all they were lookig for ina party is a **** for one night stand. jsut be urself and be confident. if they tease you like a lady before christ,,ask them "Mary is one of them, isn't she the preetiest?".goodluck with u and ur friends
Shop at hollister or abercrombie or for somethig cheaper try dilliards
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