if a person is 34 years old, 5 foot 10 inches, close to 200 lbs, dosent eat verr!
Question: sits on a couch for no less than 6 hours a day, smokes between 1 and 2 packs of ciggeretts a day, 2 two liters of mt. dew soda/pop a week, has a hard time being motivated, try's but cant seem to clean up after them self more than 78% of the time, how is it possable for them to get pregnant? my girlfreind is who i am talking about,( i love her dearly but she needs to hear this so be real but nice please, no rudeness, just reality. ) i have told her, doctors have told her every-1 we know,(40+ people,) have told her, and if the world can help wear every-1 else couldent, i will owe u 1 and a half 4 real! she has bipolar, takes medication, goes to counceling weekly and wants a good life, she wants what we all do , the american dream. some of this is depression related becuse she cant get pregnant. any idias on weight loss and motivation would b good 2. she takes pregnancy tests weekly and trys to tell me there is a line and i dont see it. she is ok with me helping her,i wont give up on her.
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The answer to all her problems lies with what she is eating. If you begin to research all of the ingredients that are allowed in our food, you will be shocked and disgusted. A person can eat as much as they want, but it must be the right foods--meaning fresh, raw and preferably organic--not prepackaged so they can sit on a shelf. A major reason is those packaged foods have lost their enzymes, which are crucial to allowing the body to function properly. If you give the body what it needs, it will be well and you will feel well and you will function properly (except for damage you've done which tales time to heal.) If you correct the diet, everything else will fall into place. It is a waste of time to try to fix the symptoms and not the cause, so please make a commitmentto cleanse and detoxify the body first and then eat good things only. Learn about nutrition and you will be convinced!
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She may have PCOS while is a reproductive disorder. She needs to talk to her gynecologist about that possibility.
However the criticism isn't helping her. There's a fine line between caring and being overbearing. You need to stop and consider if you are pushing her to become the person YOU want her to be and not who she necessarily wants to be. If this is a constant issue between you, it could very easily magnify her depression and self-esteem issues.
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She may be suffering from depression. Perhaps she ought to be encouraged to talk with a psychologist.
She sounds like she is depressed, and that her current meds and treatmetns may not be doing the job well enough.
I think I'd get her a second opinion. I bet once the mental issues are resolved, some of the physical issues will start to clear up as well.
thats all you can really do is be there for her she has to want the help in order to get it everyone can talk to they are blue in the face until shes ready its not going to happen. Just continue to love her
Threaten to leave her unless she gets her act together.
well i dont exaclty know what to tell u thretan your gf in a nice way or make her a schedule if she doesnt follow it then i am sorry
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She needs to start out by walking. You should walk with her. Tell her why you love you and dream about your futur together. As she gets more excersize and starts building up some self worth it will be easier for her every day. Before she knows it, it will be easier for her to say no to the extra calories and with each baby step she will be more proud of herself. She will stop smoking and you guys will live happily ever after.
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OK you can just go to a place(I forget name) that extract some seamen to get her pregnant keep trying until done.
Have you tried telling her that you will work out with her?5 ft.10 and close to 200 lbs. isn't all that bad.You can't change someone that doesn't want to be changed though.
It sounds like the goal is for your girl friend to become pregnant and healthier. Based on your description, it appears that you folks are working diligently on her condition.
Have you seen a physician to test your sperm count?
Sounds very much like depression to me. Unfortunately there is only so much you can do, the only one that can make her decide to have a life worth living is her.
You can help in some ways, like helping her get out of the house more. You two should go for walks together, getting out of the house and getting exercise will help a lot.
Try helping her by playing up all the positive things that she does, rather than talking about everything that she does wrong. I don't think that letting her know that you have aired all her dirty laundry onto the internet for the whole world to see, or telling all her 40+ friends will help either. People will live up to whatever they believe that people think about them. If she feels like everyone around her pities her and views her as a failure, then she won't be motivated to do more, she will feel stuck in the place that she is in.
Encourage her by only focusing on the good things that she does, and not the negative. She is broken, and needs to be treated very fragiley right now. Just encourage and love, that is the best thing that you can do.
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