what is the best way to give a female an orgasm who is frigid?!
Question: my wife has been frigid for years and has no interest in sex. I'm not ready to give up on sex for a long time. I'm not into cheating but it has been a consideration.
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Every couple goes through periods when one or both partners are too busy or not in the mood. But the sustained lack of interest you mention signals that something is wrong. Some physical conditions can lower libido in men, as can some medications. If you think illness may be a factor, urge your husband to have a complete physical.
Stress can also diminish sexual desire, as can a deep-seated fear of intimacy. An affair can take a spouse's attention away from his partner, too. However, the most common reason men and women avoid lovemaking is unexpressed anger at their partner. Could your husband be upset about something in your marriage? Does he expect things from you that he doesn't feel he's getting? Any hostile or negative feelings he has must be recognized and dealt with before you can find pleasure in lovemaking again. Have a serious talk about the issue, but if you can't communicate, I strongly suggest you see a therapist together.
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Ask her.
Make it all about her
lick her low like theres no tomorrow
Have you tried watching porn? My wife was the same way and we started watching porn and it did the trick. Give that a whirl and see what happens.
Good luck!
get her into the ambience like lit tea candles(perfumed) then give her a nice massage then a foot spa(warm water w/ olive oil & aromatic oil, warmed her foot on it when it is soft enough scrab it w/ salt) then suck her toes then presto sho would be begging you to do her. good luck
You have to find out what her issue is. Ask her and explain why it is important to you. Don't cheat on her.give her a chance to work out the problem and communicate with you.
If she cant give herself one, then u have no chance, If she can then make sure she is relaxed and warm and comfortable and make sure that u explain that u dont really want her to *** you are just enjoying her body, that way no pressure then get your fingers and tongue into action. Ta da!
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Talk with her slowly and nasty.
Get more time to understand each other needs, cut the same old crab, have some wine, get her high, give her a massage after a hot bath, then some wine, then give her heads, or watch a porn movie with her, then start the action, you make out the orgasm first to get her high, or talk dirty to her while making out. And if it all doesn't;t work out. Get another sex partner.
first try some oral stimulation that always works. do that for a while she will not get tired of of it if you do it right. after that ..well there are some factors.(1)how big is your love muscle(2)does she like it really hard fast and rough, or soft gentle(3)try swinging
Toys toys toys! You use them on her, and have her tell you what feels good.and remeber that next time you are doing it without toys.
explain to her that you are not going to cheat her but you want her to enjoy with try kissing the nipples
Take your time with her and explore the possibilities of using sex toys.
yes, ask her! its the only way. buy her sexy underwear and take her away for a romantic weekend. Spoil her! shel love it!
You know, you just might have to try your best to give her what she wants for the time. OR-
One idea to get her to open up is maybe let her know that you feel this way. Let her know that you've had temptations, or if it gets bad enough, tell her that divorce is always an option. Maybe that'll wake her up. Been there, beleive me. It could work.
Here's a nice quotation that I have found. It makes sence, I think: (I just wanted to throw it in there.)
"Man loves company even if it is only that of a smoldering candle." If you've tried being without affection and don't like it, try the above options. Good luck.
Clean the house, do the dishes, and if that doesn't work, ask her why..
Hmm. Frigid? It will be an uphill task. Find out by asking her/ showing her pics. I believe eating ice cream cups excites most woman. Try that approach?
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