Is it hard to be different?!
Question: I think I am different from others.
I'm diffrent from my friends.I'm diffrent from other people and.
This is making me very sad all the time and Im getting mad.
Is it really hard to be different? or it is not?
What should I do?
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sometimes being different is a sign of strength and character, because it takes more guts to be an individual than a carbon copy. If you look in history, all the greats were individuals, not carbon copies. they stood out because of their differences. if you look at the differences this way, you will see, greatness comes with being different. stand your ground, don't be a carbon copy, you are destined for greatness.
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its good to be different - embrace it,
Everyone tries so hard to be different that we are all alike. Everyone claim they are unique and different, but when it all comes down to it, we are all stereotypes of what we hate.
f u r diffrent in the rite way then u need to b proud dude!if nt try n change urzlf and how can u say U R DIFFeRENT there may b people like u whom u juz need to discover huh?
You know why it is hard to be different? Because we live in a country where everyone is raised to believe in conformity. If someone is different, they fall out of the league! I believe a man or a woman who can show off their true inner self by being different is an intellectual and handsomely intelligent human being. Don't be sad, be happy that you have been blessed with the power to be different. I am very different from all my friends and family. Sometimes it's regretting but most of the times, I am happy that I am different, it allows me to stand out of the crowd and be a leader instead of a follower.
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If u feel comfortable being different from the rest just remain as who u really are, don't change urself for others.
It is not difficult to be different.u've to be yourself, don't be somebody else. Enjoy your life and do anything you want.
search for the power ,power of money,power of knowledge , bower of trust of your self
trust of the others without give them information about you
do things with secret until done.
don't talk any things about what you have been done.
invest some money to worth new friends.
try to know what do have and be huppy of that .
best life to you
Life can be very hard especially when you have problems that are personal to you.
I knew I was different to a lot of people around me until someone told me I need to accept what I feel to myself.
These were hard words I knew who I was.When I did finally accept that and thought this is me I had a much better frame of mind.
Being different even helped me focus much better on things around me.
You will also be surprised how many folk around you do care and know but are letting you find your own feet in life as this is a good training and maybe they cannot help you without feeling.
it`s GOOD!
I hope you'll forgive an answer similar to one I gave
earlier, but sadness, depression, all these heavy
feelings all tie in together. You think you are different, but we all are. The real problem is htat you are sad. I think it's great that you are looking at your mood and asking questions about it. I understand your desire to stay away from "sledgehammer" solutions that can be dangerous. When it comes to your health, remedies that are stronger are not always better. I have three things that have gotten me through times when I've been sad or
depressed, and they're all gentle solutions that I
think will suit an intelligent person like yourself.
1 - The first is what Freud calls the "talking cure".
He insists that it must be performed by a
psychoanalyst who you are paying for, but actually
I've performed it by writing in a diary. The key is to
be very honest, and try to find connections that you
might otherwise be supressing, because these are the
areas that need work. For example, what's the first
thing that pops into your mind when you think of
"depression"? If the answer is "flying a kite", then
follow the chain. What do you think of when you
think of "kite" and "flying". You'll be surprised
how quickly this takes you right down to an event in
your childhood or an unresolved conflict that might
have happened a year ago.
2 - Looking for lies. A chair cannot make you
depressed. A lampshade cannot make you depressed. Only
another person can make you depressed. I believe it is
because a chair and a lampshade cannot lie. Only a
person can lie. Depression, it seems to me, comes from
believing a lie. That conflict (between reality and
the lie) takes up so much mental energy to maintain,
it drains you as a whole. You may find, after using
technique #1, that it leads to you to this conclusion
#2. For example, after free associating your way to an
event, you might find that it was when someone told
you that you weren't worth a hill of beans. The
problem is not that they insulted you, the problem is
that you believed the lie. Beware, giving up on a lie
that we've believed in for a long time is tougher than
it sounds.
3 - This one is going to sound goofy, especially after
wading in deeply with the other two techniques. Get
some light to shine on the cells in the back of your
eyes. Go outside for an extended period of time
without sunglasses (no need to stare at the sun or a
light-bulb, indirect light will do). Use one of those
gentle light therapy products like www.everlyte.com .
Take a trip on a sailboat. Spend a few hours in open
fields on sunny days. It's those cells in the eyes
that produce much of the chemical that pills and
herbal remedies seek to replace, but the cells in the
eyes put the chemicals where they are needed, in your
brain, and not in your stomach and everywhere else.
This third technique will help you with the other two,
allowing you to think clearly, and get out from being
stuck in a loop.
I hope this "whole-istic" answer is as helpful to you
as it has been to me over the years. A gentle look at
the whole picture is often better than a sledgehammer
to just one piece of the problem.
Sometimes being different is just being the same. We are all different in our own ways, however we are all the same. Me personally, I like being different, standing out in the crowd. Embrace your differences! Go with the flow, and have fun out there. And one day when you ask, are we there yet, you will be answered, YES we are. *hugs*
Good luck my friend in your search. I wish you well.
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