i just found out that my wife had sex with 60 men before she met me is this a lo!
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She's with you now. She wouldn't have married you if she didn't want just you.
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60 is a lot. More than normal for a non-whore.
get an aids test annually.
get tested for STDs, that's a lot of people that she slept with
um yes. 60 is more than her age im assuming and that is FAR TOO MANY. get her tested, counseling, sexaholics anonymous. anything.
Definetly be worried. Although your wife may love you, she seems to need some help. GET TESTED! Get her some counseling also.
umm yes
when did you meet her? if it wasn't yesterday than forget it. use the experience to your advantage.
It is TOO many men but I think she loves you but still get tested for STD's
if you love her, u wouldnt mind her past or present.. both of you should look at the future..but if i were you, i will feel abit hurt.. good luck..
I would get tested by a doctor, but if she has something, odds are you do too.
As long as she is faithfull now, what does it matter what she did then.unless she straight up lied and said "it was only you baby.or.just a few" then you have issue and I would suggest counseling.
60 is a lot. And you know that she told you after you got married, because you wouldn't have married her if you knew this info prior. Get her tested. A.S.A.P.
buddy you shoul probably leave her and get a new girl what if she has aids she can pass that on to you!!!!leave her!!!! !@#$%^&*()_+
Unless she has cheated on you during your relationship, or you have contracted some disease from her, I wouldn't be worried about it. How many people you've slept with has no depth on who you really are on the inside.
That is quite a few partners but one of the best pieces of advice i've heard is "it's not important who your first is, but rather who you last is". This applies here, what she did before she met you is of little relevance because clearly she hadn't found the right man until she found you.
Unless your wife is giving another reason to worry, such as you think she might be playing up behind you back, be thankful that you have a loving partner who has chosen to be with you and not just settled for the first bloke who came along.
I've known several women who've had this many partners or more. She could be free-spirited and very sexual which could be great for you. On the other hand, she could be a sexual abuse survivor who's acting out and there could be drug or alcohol involvement, which could suck for you. If it's a sexual abuse issue, then she needs counseling or therapy--if she hasn't been down that road before. If the issue is unresolved and she refuses to seek healing, there will be challenges ahead.
late to find out after you married IT.
marriage have many surprises.
this is upsetting you, how you feel about your partner.
I think you need to sit back take deep breath, either forget it,or get counseling.
I think you may be asking question for our opinion and how to coop with unsettlement in your marriage.
this is great place to get help.
you may also need deeper attention if you want to keep marriage together. lots of ways to figure things out if you can not afford dr bill.
continue to ask us other questions or where good dr is.
good luck with your decision.
hope you are having better day with question under your belt.
umm; yes.you should be concerned.
Practice safe sex. Both of you get tested annually.
If I was you I would divorce her and marry another woman your wife might get AIDS and then..that's a lot of man I think you should stay away from her.
60 men at one time? exactly 60 men?
Health concerns aside, if she's not doing it after she's with u.. forget the past and accept her as she is.
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