my friend frined is saying she is going to kill herself cause she broke up with!


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Take her seriously, do not give her the brush-off, and find her professional help, there are 1-800 crisis line numbers in every yellow phone book out there, it's in the front part, near fire and police department phone numbers. Most of all, listen to what she has to say, maybe she just needs to vent and needs a crying shoulder, be a good friend.

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You should ask them to promise, to you, not too hurt themselves. Its important to get a commitment from them to not do anything; even if its just for a day or a few hours. I'm not sure how old you are, or your friend but then you should seek help from family, teachers or someone so this whole burden is not just one you.
Try to talk to her. Calm her down as much as possible and if she is still thinking of killing her self then maybe she should get professional help. It is always sad when someone you love is thinking about suicide. I wish you and your Friend the best of luck!
Her killing herself for breaking up with someone is not the answer. I know how it feels.breaking up with somebody you love is the worst.it will get better. be there for her or him as much as you can.
It sounds like your friend is a bit distraught. Suicide's pretty serious, though, so hopefully she doesn't mean it.

There's no real "you must say this" to someone who is truly suicidal or thinking of suicide (what's called suicidal ideation). Maybe ask her if she's really going to kill herself (has plans for killing herself). She might be just really upset.

In either case, talk to her and remind her of all the stuff that she enjoys in life. Tell her jokes, the kind that she likes if she has any preference. Try to get her mind off things. It's hard to cry when you're laughing.

Once she calms down, she'll hopefully be more able to talk about what's upsetting her. Maybe she should see a counselor or a therapist if she still has issues.

But the first step is being there for her. Speak from your heart. That's the best thing to do. Everything else can come later.

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