Is it normal for my girlfriend to give a co-worker a ride from work to his house!
Question: I would like to know if its ok for my girlfriend to give a co-worker a ride to his house after work? Last week she gave him a ride because his everyday ride didn't show to work. Today she gave him a ride. The seat was tilted back and since it's the second time he gets a ride never puts the seat back to normal. Im am starting to analize that he might be feeling a little to comfortable. Is it normal. My girlfriend normaly tells me everything but doesn't really tell me she gives that guy a ride unless i as what location in the freeway she's on. She works 35 miles from where we live. The guy lives 6 miles away from work. Should she be telling me that she has dropped of this guy or she shouldn't tell me at all
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You sound like you have some trust issues with her. It is totally normal to give someone a ride to work. Some people adjust seats and leave them that way. I am sure he is not getting too comfortable. I am sure it is no big deal.
If you trusted her then it would not be required for her to tell you that he has dropped him off or not. How would you feel if she said that to you and you were totally innocent?
You really need to take a look at the trust issue you have with her. Why are you concerned with this? Do you think she would cheat? Do you think she would lie? What has she done in the past to make her think that she would? Analyze that and maybe you will uncover a deeper problem then giving a guy a ride to work.
Good Luck!
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I wouldn't panic - passengers adjust seats themselves - trust your girlfriend and relax :)
if you are really concerned, let her know, but I really think you have nothing to worry about
What?! people give each other rides all the time. It is absolutely normal.
Man, you have some jealousy issues.
She should tell you, but you should also trust that she's just being nice. As for the seat, most people adjust the seat in other cars, or at least they do in mine.
If you guys trust each other it shouldnt be a problem I dont see any harm in her giving the guy a ride home and he's probably tall and that's why he reclines the seat back and as far as her tellin you when she takes him home she probably doesnt see it as a "big" deal and that's why she doesnt say anything to you about it!
Why not? Wouldn't you like someone to give your girlfriend a ride if required?
Ever hear of car-pooling? Especially with the gas prices these days. If this becomes a regular thing? I definitely think the co-worker should pitch in with gas prices. He may not have a car, but it's no use to take advantage of someone who does.even if she's going to the same location otherwise. He needs to contribute if it becomes regular occurance.
Otherwise? Lighten up! It's a good deed that will be returned one day.
Well. If she really loves you then she'll be honest with you. I don't think you should worry.. everyone needs a lift sometime. Its funny how no one trusts anybody these days.
Best of luck to you.
shes doin last time that happened to me she gave my dad a ride and ended up doin him
I think it is good that she is telling you, but the whole thing sounds fishy! The guy may be a free loader, and if your girlfriend has a good heart she may buy into that. This could also be a cover - up for some other ****. I mean, I'm nice, but the fact that she is going way outta her way (with gas prices looking like they are) the whole ride home thing could just be a cover up. Don't sweat it! The cards will eventually tell! Remember, even though she may not have bad intentions, he is a man!
is it a question of trust?
or insecurity?
if both of you know how long it takes to and from work!
add in the time as well as the miles either way with or without taking this guy home!
there should not be a cause for concern!
keep your self in check!
if you pursue the matter further!
it could send a negative msg. to her!
do you trust her?
for all you know!
she has more trust in you than you do in her!
not good!
there should be trust all around!
I would feel good for the fact that she told me and then wonder if the guy is trying to take advantage of her in order to try to get to know her a little better. and then the next thing you know they'll be picking up lunch or dinner and he'll invite her into his place and then bammm! their knock'n boots! and next thing you know she'll be sending you a dear Tom song over the radio airwaves, Dogg.
Don't fall for the okkie doke or the hipe, my brotha! you know how smooth you guys are. probably ain't a damn thing wrong with his car! he's just trying to smell her punanny!
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