Our likeness?!
Question: My friend is 5'4, 34C, 27" waist, 40" hips, and 129lbs and I'm 5'4 34C, 26" waist, 39" hips and 127lbs. People say we are alike in many ways but I don't think we are we are best friend and everythnig but I want to be my own person and not compared to her because she always gets the boys and the attention she's like my older sister and she doesn't even know it but I'm so jealous of her on the inside. What do I do to regain confidence in myself and gain my own indivisual me?
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just be you every one is there own person, you need to find that one thing about you that she will never have. once you find it flaunt it.
good luck
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tough luck girl I here yeah
do something that she wouldnt do! be spontaneous. just because you might physicly look like her doesnt mean that you have to act like her.
well, you just said it.you are your own person. do you two dress alike? if so, try and change it a little bit. you shouldnt be jealous of her just because she gets the boys, it's better to have one GREAT guy, than whole bunch of stupid ones. as for confidence, the only reason your friend has any is because it's the wrong kind.boys shouldn't ever be your main priority.
Jus dont worry bout wut ppl say cause everybody is their own person even if though other ppl cant see it.
i know how you feel.well sorta! my bf and i used to be very much a like. she is a good 4" shorter but other than that we used to look a good bit a like. long brown hair, blue eyes, realatively same size chest, same taste in guys, but we are very different and we both know it. we do alot together and there are times that we are equally jealous of each other. although, you might feel like she gets more guy attention, i'm sure that there are things about you she admires. instead of worrying about her.you should try and meet guys on your own. get to know them, find things in common. and if you still feel like you are in her shadow try changing your hair or makeup, take up a new hobby, put a little space in your similarities!
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