Im a young lady of 20yrs, ive been a virgin for 20yrs, sex is so damn painful. i!
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If you are virgin. How would you know it is painful. If other people have told you this. It is a lie. Tell your partner to stop if he is hurting you in anyway and use plenty of foreplay to get you aroused. This way you will be self lubricated before he tries to enter you. If you still have problem try using a lube of some sort.
try a different position. if that stil doesnt work get him to make you orgasm first then try penitration
you were a virgin its goinna hurt the first few times. just need to keep at it and tell your partner to be more careful and go slow
you need to kind of bear the pain then it gets better!
Painful only if you dont relax and the guy doesnt take his time being gentle w/ you.
Try Lubricant. Lube helps things from hurting. :) Makes penetration a hell of a lot easier.
It will take a little while before it starts to feel more enjoyable - just be patient or you could try using lubricants like K-Y or AstroGlide -that may help- also touching your "spot" (masturbation)during sex could help alot
Make sure you are, let's say, excited enough. If you are having sex with a man that is really big, it's gonna hurt anyway! There's not alot you can do. You can experiment with various positions, but I recommend you go on top. That way you can control the speed, the depth and therefore how much pain you can take. I lost my virginity that way and it was virtually painless. Happy Sexin' =)
it takes a couple of times
It can be painful first few times tell your hymen is broken , but after that if you atill having pain see a doctor
HAVE SEX MORE OFTEN TILL IT FEELS GOOD!
I THINK YOU'RE TOO UPTIGHT. FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL GO NICE AND SLOW WITH LOTS OF GENTLE ORAL STIMULATION. HAVE A FEW ORGASMS. ONLY THEN TRY PENITRATION (INTERCOURSE). GOOD LUCK :)
Sex for a virgin is somewhat painful, but if you are with someone who loves you and takes time, it can be a fulfilling experience. Sex is about connection and love as well as enjoyment. Save yourself for someone you love and trust and the pain won't be uncomfortable.
One possible reason it is painful could be because your entrance is quite tight, though you can do regular stretches to loosen it (similar to stretches that pregnant women can do to avoid tearing in labour).
how do you know that it's painful? have you tried it? well the key is that you can enjoy it, as long you enjoy it than it won't be painful. if you enjoy it means you want it and vice versa. don't be shy and enjoy it. don't believe what people say. sex will not be painful as long you want it and enjoy every process. good luck
Hopefully by now you've had a thorough Gynecological exam. If you haven't, make an appointment. Next time you're with your Dr., be sure to mention your concerns. There are many things they can do for you to solve this problem, including confirming the presence and if so, removal of your hymen.
Sex should be physically wonderful for you. Please see your Dr. and follow the recommendation. You should be back in the saddle again in no time!
TRY TO USE CARROT, OR OTHERWISE SEND A MESSAGE TO MY E-MAIL. i will give many tips to u.ok.
good fore play, oral sex will bubricate ur hole naturally , first try ur finger 2-3 times in out then allow penis to go in slow ly u ll enjoy
Naturally the first time will hurt, because you are a virgin and you are tight. Tell your partner to use loads of foreplay. That will give naturual lubrication and will make penetration a whole lot easier. And dont worry because the more you do it the better it will get. You'll be a pro in no time
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