Erection Problem?!
Question: You have probably heard this 1 a 100 times, so please excuse me if you have. I am fit and healthy but have an erection problem. I am almost certain is "the mind games" because i frequently get erections when i wake in the morning and so on. The problem is when i go to bed with my partner. It is all I think about, will I, wont I get am erection. I know it is very silly to think this but it is not as easy as you think not too, i have tried many things, like lots of oral sex on her, but because I still think to myself, come on penis get hard for christ sake.
I solved the problem by taking half of a tablet of viagra, an hour before I went to bed, It went up no probs and I was really happy. What I want to know, is what are the implications of taking Viagra long term, I saw my doctor once at the beginning over my prob and he said it was all in the mind, but easy for them to say that.
I have thought to myself, well, if a little pill does the trick, nothing to worry about. Advice needed
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Just the fact you are asking the question here sound like it is a serious problem. And as people have mentioned above, natural is much better but I’m sure you already know that. The longer you take it the more mental block you will have. The problem is that many times it is a vicious cycle, where the more it doesn’t work the more you worry. I had that problem at a young age and got a new partner which helped. Not saying you need that but it helped me stop thinking about it, kind of a clean slate. You can get that in your current relationship though. Also try having your partner with you while you masturbate and do it together. Sometimes that will just lead to sex, or maybe don’t let it right away so you aren’t thinking about it the first few times. And always go down on her. Another way is to stop using a condom if you are (make sure shes clean and on birth control) it eases the time needed between hard on and sex. Exercise, less caffeine, and proper eating and sleep helped me a great deal. All of those lead to a better body image and increased circulation and self-esteem. Doctors agree on all of that. Lastly, once it starts working you will never look back and be fine. Good luck!
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SOUNDS TRICKY... AND Bloody hard to answer. Good luck. Sorry I can't Help!
There is something doctors will never admit to their patients, that all drugs are toxic, and this toxicity is accumulative over time. Not even the drug manufacturers know the potential damage their drugs can cause over time. Why do you think there is so many lawsuits over some of the drugs people use to pop everyday for heart conditions, high blood pressure, etc? Drugs affect people in different ways. This is why people experience differt side effects with the same drug. I would try to take no drugs at all, unless I was in great pain, and couldn't endure it anymore.
Sweety, I hate to even tell you this, but the reason Viagera works is because you BELIEVE it will. I know that it will sound funny, but the p*nis is make of a spongy kind of muscle, and when the muscle is tense it pushes all the blood OUT of it. So the key to getting blood IN is to relax these muscles, and thinking about them makes them tense. The easiest thing to do is to just make sure you are bringing your partner to orgasm and don't worry about yourself. If you want maybe she could suck it, an orgasm can be achieved with a limp member, so try this. Best Wishes
Viagra may help but it does have long term side effect. but you dont need them to errect since u tend to get erect in the morning. because we all get it. u have women, just think about them and how beautiful they are. you will erection.
natual are alway better.
If it is no problem when your sleeping, when you wake up take a look at your partner. That may very well be the problem. Not saying she is not attractive, but maybe your just not attracted to her, sometimes this does happen the attraction does wear off. Ask yourself if this is your problem. We as men can also feel when we no longer turn our partners on. Maybe the passion is just gone.
You might have an anxiety disorder. You might want to check that angle too.
Hypnosis!
Good Luck!
What you have now developed is like a fear of fear in a way. You're so busy worrying about the fact that you might not be able to get an erection that now that's all you can think about! You can't think about how sexy your gf looks or anything like this because your erection anxiety is totally distracting you! You need to stop putting this pressure on yourself and just relax. You need to stop putting so much emphasis on getting an erection. There are plenty of other ways you can please your girlfriend so just relax and stop worrying about it. Why dont you give each other massages? Do things that are soothing and sensual but do not require you to have sex. Once you are relaxed and not putting pressure on yourself this problem will definitely go. Taking medication for things is never a good idea. You will find that eventually you wont be able to get an erection at all without Viagra also I say its best to tackle this problem and work through it.
how does your partner look,could be afraid to come out!
A couple suggestions:
1.if you don't work out, start and it will help. try jogging 10 minutes a day to start and work your way up.
2. Maybe get some ginsing or horny goat weed and take it as directed.
3. consider your lifestyle and the foods you eat. Certain foods can help in that department.
4. have your partner do something for you: find your fetish and see if that works. you may be having the problem because you are bored with your sex life and just don't know it.
5. Try having sex somewhere where there is a sense of danger. Like outside or somewhere adventurous.
6.Try a different doctor. Most doctors honestly don't know what the hell they are talking about. They simply make recommendations as far as the information they have on hand. Think about all of the medical conditions in existance, there is no way one doctor will actually have a viable solution to every problem you have, regardless of how much experience they have. The trouble with doctors is they think they know more than they do, and they have huge egos *not all, just most* and they are not willing to admit they don't know how to help you sometimes. Do some searching online and find an institute in your area that is reputable for that field
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Many books on sexual health.
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