sexual queries?!
Question: help i masturbate and i am addicted but i like it alot and i want to know howi could stop myself!
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wish i could help
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why stop? as long as you aren't causing harm or it isn't affecting your normal life, enjoy it :D
Hi, thats cool. don't stop if it feels good.
Thats natural but a better way to do it is to find a partner.
It depends on how old you are. Maybe you're not really addicted, to masturbate once or twice a day wouldn't mean you're addicted. But if you recognise that you do it that often that you can't enjoy it anymore, that would mean you're addicted. If you still enjoy it, you don't have to do anything against it.
Better to masturbate than get a disease or have a baby . Make sure you have clean hands and toys. Use lube. Try not to get caught. It could be embarrasing.
Why would you stop?
There's nothing wrong! Think about why you do it! What's your urge (pleasure, compensating a lack, habit.)
Anyway, there would be no reason to stop, unless you don't have anymore pleasure but just do it as an habit.
Don't stop. There is no such thing as "addiction" to masturbation. Of course, anyone can overdo it. The way you know that is - it hurts! THEN you stop.
There are occasionally people of both genders who do it obsessively. It still isn't an addiction, but in that case it's a symptom of deeper problems, and the appropriate resource is a psychiatrist. Notice I did not recommend a psychologist. The psychiatrist is an MD where the other is not.
Anyway, as long as you don't indulge to the point that you let every other obligation go, such as homework (aw, bummer!) and cleaning your room (aw, Grampa!) and helping with chores around the house (groan!), you can go ahead and enjoy your self-pleasuring. Don't need expensive toys either. You got all the fun tools you need right at your fingertips!
And NO - masturbation won't kill interpersonal relations with the right guy when he comes along. ;-)
I don't see why you would want to stop, unless someone has told you it's wrong.And it is sooo not wrong.Its perfectly normal and natural. Lots of people become obsessed though, and that's not healthy. You know in your own mind if you do it too much! If you want a way to curb the urges, when you start to think about doing it, try thinking about something else that turns you off or makes you happy in another way..like..grandma's cookies or fluffy bunnies or something, or try finding a hobby to keep yourself busy.if you really want to do it less frequently, you can control yourself, it's called willpower. The more you do it though,the less you get out of it. Space it out and enjoy the natural exploration of your body and sexuality.
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