can we have it all?!
Question:
how is a woman supposed to keep her sanity while juggling job pressures, kids, husband, beauty pressures .?
ALL AT THE SAME TIME?
or do we have to choose only one thing?
Answers:
You can't always get what you want. But if you try sometime, you just might find you get what you need.
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It's as fair as any other person has it. The average person has the same things to stress about, men included. Just take one thing at a time- you'll be alright.
YES we can, i do it everyday, have 2 wonderful kids who are a handful at the best of times, work full time and my husband doesnt keep great at times with depression, i have managed it now for 10 year, and dont get me wrong i sometimes burst into tears and start to feel sorry for myself, but hey thats life and i love it. Its good to get it all out, and then you have peace and quiet and tranquility at the hairdressers or getting a massage and you dont mind one wee bit!! Keep at it, sanity is a wonderful and trying thing, likes to test us, but we are woman who are made of stronger stuff..
no we can't have it all and enjoy it,but we can have it all and not have the time and energy to enjoy it. Women tend to spread themselves to thin but they manage to get so much done. Bless them all!
I have a husband, three kids, and i go to college. It is really hard at times to keep up with everything but i stand back and take a good look at my life and we are all happy and i know its working, so i can muster up the strength to go on. Fair, when is life ever fair? Besides fair is what you make it.
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life
If you keep a good state of mind and stay focused on the big picture which is : it is your life and you can only make the best of ot hey it might be fair or it might not be fair but it is still life so deal.
I go to college, work full time, and have 2 teenage boys, one who is graduating from high school and fixing to go to college. It is hard but your life is what you make of it. i live it like there is no tomorrow. it may not work for you, but that is the fun of life you can change your direction at any given moment to suit you. hang in there and God Bless you.
You know what, sister, I hear ya. I juggle kids, husband, home, school, and work. I work full-time, go to school part time, do laundry, and play with kids. It's not easy. You don't have to choose one, but you should have someone to around to pick up the slack when you can't handle everything. Since you are married, make your hubby step up to the plate and help out. Or ask grand-ma and grand-pa to take the kids for the afternoon to catch up on some beauty sleep or to take an afternoon at the spa. You have to find the way. As a woman, unfortunately, that's just the way it is. And it is most certainly not fair.
Everybody deals with this, we do what we can. I think that by juggling everything when you look back you can be proud at how much you accomplished. i do think its a bit stressful and overwhelming and at times you can feel like you are just drowning in worries and pressure but I rather be busy the idle, because the business is what keeps me from getting depressed about life.
We can have it all if we choose to. Many woman juggle a lot of things at one time, when we do we just have to learn to take things one day at a time. And remember to step back sometimes and breath.
I have a lot of things going on in my life, all I do is try and spread them out, and if i spread my self to far, I dropped one, and make sure to come back to it. But my son is always #1.
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Personal Experiences
You do not have to choose one thing. You have a partnership in your husband. Have him and allow him(because sometimes we still try to be over it) to step up to the plate. Sometimes you have to steal away to do something that you enjoy and not worry about what is going on at home. Allow people that you trust to help watch the kids, get some quality time with your husband(that will encourage him to step up too), read a book, relax, do what ever it is that you do to make you feel relaxed.
Sorry, but women are trying to do too many things for everyone including their selfs, exept for taking some time of to enjoy the lesser things in life. Take my advice women, stay calm and dont think too much about anything.
PS: I have no idea how it is to have kids but it can't be easy. I can't say anything about that.
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My brain
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