Is @nal sex safe, does it hurt the woman, and is it common among couples? (girls!
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TO BE HONEST. I HAVE TRIED IT BUT LIKE THEY HAVE SAID.. LUBRICATE. I WAS A LITTLE DRUNK AND I DID TRY IT BUT GO VERY GENTLE. IF IT IS MAN THAT RESPECT YOU HE WILL. LIKE THE SAID RELAX.. I AGREE. THEN NEXT THING U KNOW IT IS IN THERE. BUT SOME TEND TO GET WILD WHEN THEY GET THERE THINKING IT IS ALL GOOD BUT KEEP YOUR GROUNDS BECAUSE IF U DO NOT.. YOU WILL BE DOING A #2 REAL FAST. THAT IS JUST WHAT IT FEELS LIKE. FOREAL.. JUST GO SLOW AND TAKE IT ONE STEP AT A TIME.. GOOD LUCKKKKKKKKKKKKK
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it hurts like hell..and it is okay (safe) to do it as long as he doesnt go into the vagina after he has been " in the back"..could cause an infection.
If you have ever seen someone who has been practicing a*al sex over a long period of time you certainly would not say so. To see the foot of their bed raised eighteen inches higher that the head to stop gravity taking effect on the bowel would turn anyone away from having anything to do with it. It is not part of love, it is not part of true sex, it is an unnatural act glamorized by pornographic merchants.
If done right, it doesn't hurt. But it is not common practice among couples, most women will probably trie it once. but most aren't into it.
ptmamas has most of it right but the hurting part is only because the woman wasn't prepared and relaxed. It doesn't have to hurt. There are many websites you can go to to learn the proper way. As to common? Well it is more common than most think because for some reason, people don't talk about it. I think it may be an old fashioned religion based taboo. Who knows, but for what ever reason, it is generally not discussed.
And as to Thomas's answer, this type of interaction between to consenting adults was and still is a common way to prevent pregnancy. It isn't fool proof, but what is?
The @nus is designed for things to exit, not enter.
Serious problems can occur after @nal sex for some women (and men).
There can be bleeding for days or weeks (like having a period from your @nus). There can be extreme stabbing pain.
On the flip side, some people find it pleasurable.
You have to do it right and it won't hurt! First of all TAKE YOUR TIME! Use plenty of lube and start with a finger. then 2. GO SLOW. The tendency is to scrunch up your butt when being penetrated. that's the sphincter muscle's natural reation. You have to relax a little and actually try to PUSH out with your sphincter to relax it. This takes a bit of practice. But if you tighten the muscle it will hurt! Remember. push out. like you are trying to go to the bathroom. but not too hard! ;) Warming up gets the back door ready for action and helps you relax. You need to get a V1brat0r and try it on yourself FIRST to find out what I am talking about. Don't let him get too anxious. he has to be gentle & slow to warm you up. I have had 2 girlfriends that mainly wanted @nal because the orgasms were so intense. It's not for everyone, but you may find yourself adicted to it!
Well, it can be safe but you are putting yourself at more risk for a disease. The rectal tissue tears easily during the act, which will allow anything bad to go back into the girls system (including her own poo germs) Yes it does hurt. It usually doesn't feel good, unless done in a very romantic sweet way. If you have a big d&%$ then it will hurt even more. The anus is a muscle, so if you do do it, then go VERY slowly. NO, not as common as oral or vaginal sex
It is safe, although can be very uncomfortable for the female the first few times. I would advise you to use a lubrication. It is much more pain full without one. It is very common among couples, although not a hot topic of conversation. Although it may hurt at first, it becomes sexually satisfying. The more you have sexual intercourse this way, the less pain full it will be the next time. It really depends on the person and how comfortable they are having sex in that way. It is not recommended that one should start in the vagina and then switch to the anal area or visa versa, it can cause bad irritation & may lead into an infection. Always make sure a condom is being used.
it is really fucken question!
GROSS! I find it very disgusting and disturbing that anyone would want to do it!!
Don't do it!
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