how can i get over gay thoughts and shyness?!
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First of all, that guy that said the thing about the Hershey highway had me crack in up. Any way. I think that shyness and gayism(I am not sure if this is a real word) is in the mind. I think gay people happend because they thought they weren't good enough for women, or something bad hap pend to them they tried to go out with a women. I'm against pornos, but maybe you should go to one of those places where they sell adult movies and buy some girl ones. Also to get rid of shyness, try to look at yourself in the mirror and say over and over again that I am confident with myself. Another thing you can do is get into an activity that has people in it. This can help out your social skills. I'm not sure if this will work, but give it a try, please!!
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shyness can be overcome by boosting your self confidence, but you can't get there by way of the hershy highway
What do you mean " get over" gay thoughts. So you have them. Big deal. Maybe you're gay - or maybe you're Bi, or maybe you're neither. You need to decide if you want to act on them or not. Either way, no sweat. There absolutely nothing wrong with it. Yes, I'm sure that lots of people who answer this question are going to tell you that you're wrong and sick or something like that, but do yourself a favor. Ignore these sexually repressed morons. They live shallow and limited lives, and have no place dispensing information and spreading their negativity.
Just look at "Egghead" above. What kind of idiot thinks that gay people come from having bad experiences with women. GET REAL! Ask a gay person and they'll tell you that they were born, not made. Newsflash: Nobody "turns" gay. See what I mean? Idiots like her have no idea what they are talking about. Watching a porno is going to make you straight? Right. Just like watching Sesame Street turns you into a muppet.
Remember: "Gay" Straight" and Bi" are just labels that people use to judge you. You are a sexual being and it is right for you to question and explore it. Those that don't are forever limited and diminished.
As for your shyness - well, most of the time people are shy out of insecurity. We think that people won't like us or that we'll do something wrong. In short - we give the power to others rather than just deciding who we are and accepting ourselves. Who cares what others think. Spend some time reading these questions and answers and you'll discover a couple of things. First - that you're not alone and not abnormal, the second and admittedly sadder, conclusion that you'll realize is how stupid so many people are, and how they live their life with blinders on. There's no need to be shy..
Good luck
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