The WELL of SELF DESTRUCTION? is it true?!
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is it true that some ppl have the well to self distruct them selves.. i mean they always tend to choice with negative impacts on thier life.. and they are totally consious when they do that.. and alos they feel bad and blame themselves to thier choices after -while they relize they were able to choice the other choice- they always want to change thier situation but they repeat the mistakes again and again.. addiction to chaos.. what do you think? and how do you deal?
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Well, there are certainly people who make bad decisions. Good judgement seems pretty hard to come by these days.
Some people may make bad decisions consciously - that is choose to make bad decisions. Other people might not even realize what they are doing to make bad decisions.
There are a lot of people who don't have very good judgement. If you've ever heard of fetal alcohol syndrome, that's an example of someone who may not have good judgement.
You deal with it by trying to recognize your own weaknesses in making good judgements. If the problem is with someone around you (not yourself) you try to be patient, love them, and help them to grow. It does not work to say "You are making a bad decision." But it can help to say, do you recognize that you make the same mistake repeatedly? What do you think you can do to make a different decision next time so you don't make the same mistake again?"
Good luck.
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no it's not true
Yes, it's true that many people choose to self-destruct. It is a negative attitude that can be changed. For right now, think that none of us want that to happen. We all make choices that we don't like after we do it. Just remember that we want to hear that you made a good choice to stay here and ask us more questions.
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