Around what point in a relationship (time length is fine) is it okay to have sex!
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Been with this guy for 11 months
Very commited to one another
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You didn't mention if this was your first sexual relationship with a guy. I would have to say let nature take it's course. If the two of you have spent a lot of time together; cuddle time, petting time, even sleeping together with out having sex and your comfortable together; I would say if you feel your ready just make sure you take the proper preventative measures to protect the two of you from any form of STD or unwanted pregnancies and well go for it. *smile*
If this is your first time; I would suggest if this is something you both want, work your way up to full intercourse. Explore one another's bodies, take a shower together ( that's always fun!! ), foreplay, foreplay, foreplay *laugh* Above all else, once it's time and it is your first time, RELAX and let your body take your mind into ultimate enjoyment. Granted no matter what unless you have really done heavy foreplay and are totally relaxed your going to feel some pain but just as fast as you have it, it's gone.
So either way as others say, use the proper protection, set the mood, and if both of you are ready, have fun!!
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go for it , just use protection at all times
when you feel comfortable with the thought and things naturally move forward into uncharted territory without anyone stopping it for whatever reason.
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the past and how it worked
when you both feel comfortable in your own skin
the wedding night
When it feels right to both of you, but I cannot stress the importance of being careful (using condoms) both for pregnancy and even STD'S. even if you both are virgins (never had sex before)
Gosh! once u get married! im 13 and i no that!
anytime you want but don't forget the rubber
If you two are very committed, trust each other implicitly, and are comfortable with each other then 11 months seems fine. I don't know how old you are, but if a guy can stick it out for 11 months without intercouse that really speaks volumes about how he feels about you.
Sexual intercourse should begin only when you feel comfortable. Please use protection. I ask my partners to show me a STD and HIV test every 6 months just to be safe
if it's your first time- WAIT don't rush it but if not you know when the time is right. thier really is no need to do it
this is a personal choice. eleven months of abstinance is good. i wish i'd waited until i got married, but you sound very level headed, so you can probably decide for yourself.
That is very much up to you and the guy you are with.
My personal recommendation is to save it until your wedding night. It makes it more special and more meaningful.
What's to say that nothing is going to happen in this relationship? Maybe it's a good idea to save it for that special night :)
How old are you?? I think this is important, too. Once you start, you can't go back.
he must be either very patient,totaly frustrated,seventh day adventist,-or seeing someone on the side-if not then you could lose him if he does-go to it girl.
When ever you feel comfortable enough to do that with eachother.
After marriage, no rush! Unless you are desperate for lust and pleasure. However, nothing is certain, things may change particularly before marriage.
Make sure you give to your husband, not lover!
Well, you sound like a pretty sensible young lady. He has shown a lot of restraint in not achieving conquest, so you have to decide for yourself when the time is right. The only thing I would recommend is a physical for both of you before you proceed. You know, a clean bill of health! With all the STD's floating around today, you can't be too cautious. Unfortunately, so many of these problems never go away, once they become part of you. I hate to burst your bubble, but as they say: " an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure."
When you are married
maybe when u and your partner are very close and when time is right
When both of you are ready.
have all the sex you want as long as its safe i will give it to you if you want it done right to you. i will oral you for hours.
I would say about propbably 2 months into the relationship, and it depends on are you ready. If you said you have been with him for 11 months, yes it is okay for you have sex.
Not trying to be rude, but if you have to ask when it's o.k. to start a sexual relationship, YOU'RE NOT READY! Relax, take your time, you will know when the time is right for you!
After 11 months wouldbe fine, But only if you feel comfortable to do it. Be careful
i think 11 months is enough. i would have done it earlier :D
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