Since my 20 year marriage ended I have lost all of my sex drive?I am 40 and hav!
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Take it slow. You've just been through a very traumatic event, and is it any wonder that you have no sex drive? You are probably feeling hurt and abandoned, and maybe just a little down on yourself. Start dating, don't rush into anything, and something good will come along.
Best wishes to you.
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You may be depressed. I strongly recommend you talk to a therapist who specializes in marriage/divorce. You might just be surprised how much they can help. You are going through a huge adjustment right now and you should use what is available to you to make it as smooth as possible. Good luck.
You are going thru grief. You didn't say how long ago marriage ended, but will take time just like any other grief. Sorry for your loss. I'd give it at least 6 mos.
Get a little makeover for yourself (clothes, hair, nails-whatever), find things that you love to do and indulge in them, and go on a date (celebrate your independence!!)
My roomie (married for 23 years, then divorced) is going through the same thing.
You can take take herbal supplements to stimulate testosterone production. You can take supplements to help you relax, also.
Give yourself some time. Get back on your feet. Your juices will start flowing again. I'm 43 & going strong!
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