how can i speak without fear in a group?!
Question:
I'm not really confident in speaking in groups
i'm not shy but i dont know what happens to my voice when i'm talking in a group
when i listen to my voice later on it's not even close to me
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Well as you knw that you are facing a fear of public speaking and for that the best thing to do is 1st try getting comfortable talking in a grp with ppl whom you knw really well.. then slowly start with other ppl.. the best way is to crack a joke or sumthin so that you can lighten up the atmosphere and then once you will c every1 smiling, you will automatically have the courage to talk.. and relax.. no1 is gonna do anything.. so then plz do express yourself and let others knw wats in your mind!! all the best.
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I think everyone is surprised when they hear their own voice. I bet you are better than you are giving yourself credit for.
I have the exact same problem. For me, it's impossible to avoid, and I've found that the more I do it, the less fear I have. So, I would simply suggest practice. Just make a habit of stating your point whenever your with anyone (friends, family etc) and you should get more used to speaking in public and it will stop being such a big deal, and the more confident you get at it, the better your voice will project. And of course, you could always imagine the audience is naked!
just do it..
You want to speak in groups the best thing to do is to keep putting yourself in that situation, keep going places where your not known- that way you'll not feel as bad and just keep talking to groups of ppl. You'll eventually feel more confident at doing it
Yes, I agree, everyone I believe who listen's to their own voice think's 'Do I really sound like that??'
To make yourself feel more comfortable, you could always take a couple of lesson's from a Speech Coach, they can point out area's that may need work on and give you correct breathing techniques.
It's a fun, positive experience that does help!
listen one good way to tackle this situation is everytime you stand in front of the crowd say to youself mentally that everyone in front of you are idiots of the highest order..only you are the wise one.let the feeling sink.now u r ready believe in it and start confidently.
Realize that no one is comfortable speaking in groups at first. Then tell the group that you are not comfortable. They will support you and suddenly it will not be as hard. In fact if you go into detail about how you tried to get comfortable..eg.writing to youqa.cn..they will enjoy your story and tell you one of their own. Just knowing that your group understands makes it a lot easier. Everyone just has to jump in and face the fear in order to get over it. There is no other way.
follow sarita tiwari's advice .i used to have the same problem ,and that way of handling it worked like magic .
you already are.
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