What attitude would you have if your girlfriend want to commit suicide just bec!


Question:
This is what my girlfriend want, just because I dont want to wed her. No kids. No pregnancy.
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She has issues that need to be dealt with long before she has any relationship, let alone marraige. Tell her you care for but she needs to seek help and if it's meant to be for the 2 of you, you'll be there for her afterward.

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LET HER GET ON WITH IT ITS PROBABLY JUST A PLOY

Get counseling for both her and yourself, but don't allow her to take over your life this way. You are not responsible for her life and she is trying to force you.

Go, NOW, to a mental health clinic and tell them what she is planning. It might be a bluff but you shouldn't take that chance. Also, you should tell her family.

You aren't going to be the most popular guy in the world by turning her over, so to speak, to others but she needs psychiatric assistance -- not a husband.

Then, break up and don't go back. She isn't the right person for you if she's willing to do this type of thing to you.

shes got serious psychological issues, and needs help.
you might want to find someone more stable.

She might have a histrionic personality disorder. It sounds like she is very attention-seeking, using theatrics and drama to attract your attention. If you believe she's serious, you need to do what you can to get help for her. Otherwise, you need to make a decision. Do you want to extricate yourself from the situation, or do you want to deal with this kind of behavior?

I would think she was being manipulative, trying to force you to do what she wants. You are not responsible for her life so do not fall for this. Do you really want to be married to somebody who would put you in this position? It sounds like it's "all about her". Don't marry somebody who can't think of you.

I suggest you end it, offer to help her get to a therapist or inform somebody in her family of what she has stated, and then go live your life.
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My brother actually committed suicide. He was mentally ill with depression. He didn't walk around threatening to kill himself if he didn't get what he wanted. He lived his life as long as he could, and then checked out. I detest when people play with "I'll kill myself" as an attention getting game or ploy.

If she threatens suicide, call the cops.If she is really serious, then she needs some help, and the cops can take her to the hospital, and get her hooked up with the resources she needs. And besides, do you really want to marry someone who threatens sucide when she doesnt get her way?

Encourage her to seek proffessional Help ! Then Don't walk away, RUN...FAST !!

she sounds unstable as a person she has to except your choice

starting married life with emotional blackmail never did anyone any good! what else could she possibly manipulate you to do! or not do!! think carefully, this maybe a good reason for you to end the relationship. good luck

that's her problem, it will happen in 5 days from this response. convince her not to. be gentle, i believe she will listen to you

let her kill herself, no matter what you do or don't do if she wants to kill herself she will
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