I find my girlfriend a big turn on but cant seem to ejaculate when we have sex,w!
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This hasnt happenend to me much in the past and she is very attractive.
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I heard one time that it has to do with trust. No trust= no ejaculation. I don't know how true this is.
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There may be something physically wrong, see a urologist.
u have a bad dick
try thinking about her sister this usually helps lol
that sucks man, maybe it's physcological.like something you attribute your g/f to
You're probably a hermaphrodite! ha ha ha ha ha
You're thinking too much. relax and enjoy the "ride".
either that, or your condom is on too tight.
theres something wrong with ur downstairs
maybe your nervous
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stop being nervous!!
ur sick..i don't know ur deffective or something
you moron's.. give serious answers!
this guy is asking for advise, not stupid answers like yours.. except people who gave good advise.and that's what i would suggest too. see a doctor.
perhaps your emotionally unstable at present, lots on your mind, scared of loosing her etc etc this can effect your little man
Forgive the term but it's called retarded ejaculation (honest!) and it could be caused by stress or distractions. Turn off the music and the phones, and just use soft lighting. Concentrate on what you are doing.
You may feel stress associated with her, such as fear of losing her, impregnating her, pissing her off. Or you may be pissed off at her for something but have brushed it aside.
maybe you are not relaxed when you are in the process of making love..this usually happens if you are nervous..you should talk to your girl about this..maybe she can take the ''lead'' instead
Hmm might be a problem. your 100% sure your attracted to her? ok Welp maybe it takes longer for you to let it all go.
Your use lubrication? Could be blue balls. I dunno heh
Try having her masterbate for you, see if that helps. Then if she cant do it for you, then you need to see a doctor.
Hope i helped.
Maybe you and her have to work on ways for things to work better! Practice makes perfect you know.. and besides.. women can orgasm many many times to your one time.
Being attractive .. whatever.. it's what you do.. how confident you are.. perhaps this girl is so attractive that you are already worried going into bed that you are going to fail?
see a urologist to rule out anything physical, and try to relax and enjoy, and definately stay away from alcohol before nookie..it retards ejaculation.
Guys that lack magnesium have often experienced this type of sexual dysfunction. Take a few mega doses of magnesium and see if that helps, if not contact your Doctor for advise.
It is probably anxiety. Relax and enjoy. It will get better with time.
maybe she's not "tight"enough for you and you can't feel enough as a result.
try to imagine you are making love with a different woman in a different place. it may be a big help to you.
ARE YOU TURNING GAY ! i hope not this happen to me to a lot, I'm not gay i wish i knew the answer.
Sex is a "mind thing" and it requires concentration. I would think that you are either not concentrating on the act or that you might have a medical problem. Another issue to consider is whether there is something about your girlfriend that turns you off, attractive though she is.
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Nancy Van Pelt's "We've only Just Begun" and other sources
ur problem is that u think 2 much. if this never happened before, then its temporary. relax and enjoy lasting 45-60 minutes. I've been through that. u know what might've caused the problem? u fuk2much. take a week off and forget about sex. make a reset on ur sex life
u probably got blue balls..hehe, when u cant bust a nut.
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