Reaching my peak?!


Question:
Ok I've been married for 10 months now and have only has 2 orgasms. I have no idea what to do, we've done fore-play, he's tried to arouse me in different ways. I just dont get it. Most of the time I just fake it. The sex always feels good, and I'm ready almost most of the time, I just..need advice.
Answers:
Hi Kris:

Try rubbing your CL** while he is in you,, or ask him to tlak nasty to you or imagine someone else in you.. Also,, Have him blind fold you first. HEY role playing is awesome,, DO NOT pretend to orgasm,, Just let him know to keep you wet and keep pumping,, OH and relax more hunn.. I have some other HOTT ideas,, email me Kris. TOMCAZZ65@YAHOO.COM

Other Answers:
Have you tried different positions. Sometimes the way you are inside in tilted or deeper. Has he had any past experiences of this before. When he's been with others did he bring them to climax. I've heard if the man's behind the woman there's deeper penetration. And when he's in there you are in charge of helping him find that right spot. You need to move around to find it. Not everyones spot is in the same place.

All women are definitely different, and I agree with trying different positions. Also maybe watching something that you find erotic (ie: porn) may help raise the arousal. Some women can only reach their peak when there is double or triple arousal. So, vibrating adult toys may help when placed in or on your favorite places.

One position that I love is being on top :)

And what I found is that I have to clear my mind of other worries, anxieties, and distractions. It's as much as a mental thing as a physical thing. Also, try not to overly concentrate on achieving your peak.. As long as it feels good, I wouldn't worry about it too much ^__^
Good luck to you!

Actual penetration is not the way to go. Using fingers a lot around the clitorus is the easies way to have one. Tell him exactly what feels good (while you are in the act), and tell him not to stop something that feels good.
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