im going to be lonely the rest of my life?!
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im going to be lonely for the rest of my life, what do i do?
dont tell me i wont be lonely. you dont know me or my situation so i dont want to hear your candy coated crap.
.how do i deal with being so lonely?
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Yeah I'm going to have to agree with the other guy you will be lonely but take heart in knowing that there are other people as lonely as you. so cheer up.
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Take steps to identify why you feel so lonely, and reach out to others so that you form a support group and don't feel so alone all the time.
u wont be lonely coz there r plenty lonely ppl out there, so someone is with u
Yes, you will be lonely for the rest of your life. Thanks for the 2 points.
well i dont no and you dont no wat the future will be like but most likely when you get older people will look at your personality and they'll like you.but if you are lonley you just gone have to deal with it most people do!! it dont mean your not gonna have fun becuz you can have friends that will be there with you till the day you die and trust me you will not be lonely!!
Then y do you want somebody else opinion, u just answered the question yourself. what u need to do is boost up you self esteem
hey aint gonna sugar coat it sweety but u lonely for probably reasons you will need to work on to change it.u working? u on line talking to people.what do you do with yourself.you will be lonely if you dont start looking at the reasons y you in this position.u dont need to believe it will be forever but l know it feels like that, l been there.tell me bit more bout yourself and we see if u can do something if want..vicky
Get a volunteer job and help others less fortunate than yourself and you will be less lonely. I tried this and it really works for depression, loneliness and self pity.
For one thing, not being open to the idea that you may not be lonely,is what is keeping u lonely..
No I do not know you or your situation, but you let us all know hat you are not open to suggestion of helping you not be lonely? If you were to maybe open up, to that possibility, and let go of whatever is holding you there, maybe tht will fix your problem.
if not, i hear dogs, make great companions.
i was lonely for a long time, but eventually found someone. you've just got to hang in there. look at stuff you can do to improve who you are. working out, reading, etc. it may sound silly, but wearing decent dress clothes with a tie can help. it projects the image that you're successful. start frequenting book stores and coffee shops..
So I guess you would rather be candy coated lonely.Or is that just lonely and coverd with candy coated crap.Whatever,I hope this isn't for real.If it is get help or have your folks get help.
Being lonely is a state of mind. Yeah, it's a crappy one, but it is a state of mind. There are people who are completely alone, but they are not lonely. You are obviously not alone. People are all around you. At work, online, at the grocery store. Yet, you are "lonely". Can you point out what you feel you are missing? A family? A spouse? What is it that makes you feel incomplete? I'm not going to tell you that you will feel better tomorrow and that you're not alone. I've been through dark places in my life where I was alone, too. Take some comfort that others have (and do) feel the way you do. Try to identify what you are missing and seek it out. Pass or fail, at least you will know that you tried to make your life complete. That in itself is winning.
First of all, thanks for the 2 points.
You don't have to deal with it! It's a state of mind. Lonely people can be lonely in the midst of a crowd or their own family.
Don't deal with it. Just stay online all your life.. It's keep you busy.
Just don't get carpal tunnel from all that masturbating.
uh.yeahhh. about that- do all the things that u truly enjoy (like u can feel it in ur heart) whether it may be reading a book, sitting outside in the sunshine enjoying a warm -or cold- breeze,eating crackers, or eating a really really good pizza w/ peppers and seasoning (savring evry bite of course)---im not telling u 2 bcome a glutton, just enjoy evry moment of ur life, even if ur 'lonely' 4 the rest of ur life u coward----get up and get out there already
Keep on talking online . At least you have that . It could be worse , like me answering your question right now is temporary . I do not have a computer to do this . I have to borrow once every 2 weeks or maybe one time a month . I am in your position too . Well for what you have told of it . And it frustrates me when people who like to leave thier house and "meet" new people - think that they have THE answer for us who don't or can't . Most people cannot get it - so let me just say one bit of advise (not pushing it at you) stay open to someone just a little so you don't get suicidal . You can email me at kmjdjm@yahoo.com when I can I will answer .
Make peace with it. Turn it around and make it your strength. Find pursuits that dont require others. Do things for yourself, try to out-do yourself every day in some way.
Since we don't know your situation, and you dont want candy coating, I'd say there's a good possibility you will be. Seems you are a little bit hostile.
Does it seem that no matter how hard you try, you continue to attract the wrong people as your mate? Perhaps this is because you have forgotten about the Law of Attraction, which states, "What you draw to you is what you are!" We continue to ask life to send us the right person, the person who will make us happy or whole. Under this request is the belief that we are unhappy or not whole. In response, the universe brings us the person and situations to increase what we believe we are. See how it works?
When you focus on what you lack, you receive more of it. When you speak about what you don't want, you create it. The only way to attract and maintain a divine relationship is to be a divine mate. You must be all the things you seek in another person. You must nurture, support, embrace yourself, and you must enjoy your own company. You must be kind to yourself. Generous with yourself. And, most of all, you must love yourself unconditionally. Before you can attract that perfect somebody, you must believe you are the perfect you.
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Iyanla Vanzant - Faith in the Valley
You should forget about the bipolar woman you have been "dating" online for four years that you mentioned in another question. She does not want to meet you so move on.
So assuming you WILL be lonely the rest of your life as you say, and I tend to believe you baswed on the anger you express consistently in you questions, you deal with being lonely the way I do. I have a lot of interests that keep me occupied every day. I work out every day, travel by myself, and am so used to being alone that I never think about it much anymore. I like myself a lot and that helps.
But focusing on that poor bipolar woman, thinking that you are "dating" her online, which is not possible, for FOUR YEARS, trying to get her address even though after four years she still has not given it to you, sounds to me like you really should try to get some counseling. However I know you won't. Maybe if you can just keep a journal every day and write about your pain it will help. But I know you won't.
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