why is it bit difficult for arranged marriaged couploes to have s3x?!
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Sex isn't just physical or should I say that sex can be more than just physical. There is an emotional and even spiritual side to it that needs to be cultivated.
My opinion is that sex with your wife can and should be different than sex with a prostitute or other unknown person.
Some say that sex is the ultimate form of communication, perhaps an extension of other forms of communication. Good sex also requires a lot of trust. Talk to her, get to know her. You will have lots of time together and this time will be more fruitful time if you try to get to know each other and trust each other before you. y'know.
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uh.lets see its an ARRANGED MARRIAGE!! These people are practically strangers to each other. They didnt fall in love like a couple who met each other by chance and agree that they want to marry each other. These people are forced to be together they have to learn to like or love each other. Would you want to do it with someone your forced to be with that you dont know or might not like??
They don't love each other yet. It is easier to be attracted to someone you love, especially for women.
Because you did not pick the person. Therefore, it is very unlikely that you are attracted to ANYTHING about them and if you feel no connection then you will not want to have sex. Humans and dolphins have sex for pleasure and if we do not feel we will get any pleasure or do not have interest in the possible partner, then we usually will not have sex.
Arranged marraiges need to be eliminated. It may be an old cultural practice, but in today's world people get on just fine by finding their own mates.
Thats a great question. Arranged marriages are not based upon intimate love, which is an important factor to be able to feel erotically for your partner.
In arranged marriages you are still getting to know each other for a long time.Your inhibitions and shyness takes a long time to fade away. While, passionate experiences depend upon openess and intimacy of partners. Guess why guys can have a better intrcourse with a prostitute compared to their wives?
Also arranged couples take their partners for granted, and the charm ,romance and adventure goes away. The thrill of having quick sex, or unmarried sex is something different,Perhaps comes out of human's basic instint of enjoying activities out of social spheres.
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