am i being ..non understanding ?!
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My sons dad used to work construction , he worked real hard for a awhile, Id make him dinner everydasy when he got home and give him the works, run bath, massage legs, clean the house do laundry , beleive in every pipe dream he had.( Being a rockstar , drummer, starting his own company, fixing up this old car when we had no money, being a body hbuilder.I worked and payed the bills while he sat home , but didnt watch our son, my friends boyfriend did. I just moved out because he wont get a job , just wants to sell coc and crack , drink , party and hang out in the hood. Funny he refused to live there before cas of all the african americans, said he didnt want his **** gettin stoeln. Now he says that cas I left Im taking away his family and not being the woman I should be and standing beside him..How much should a woman take? have I not done enough? Am i a bad woman? I told him to find a job and hold it and to get some counseling , because he has grown a violent temper..please suggestons
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I think there comes a time when people have to do for themselves. It seems as though you have supported him and been there for him, only to be walked all over and taken advantage of. If he isn't going to better himself, or do something to better your life together, he isn't worth it. Trust me, I've been there done that. You shouldn't waste your life and dreams on someone that is only interested in his own. You are worth more than that, and so is your son. You deserve better. Good Luck!!
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you need to really ask yourself what do you want in life for you and yourchild? if you want more than what this guy does, then move on.he probably wouldn't even see your son if you didn't bring him around.you deserve more and he thinks for whatever reason that you don't.you are being understanding.you understand that you/and your child deserve more than what he has given you.don't go running back because your afraid that you'll lose him.sounds like he lost himself a long time ago.good luck to you.
he is a loser move on
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