How do you make sex feel better?!


Question:
My girlfriend is a virgin and when we have sex it hurts her (alot) what are some ways to make it easier and less painful and to get it so it dosnt hurt any more?
Answers:
Buy some lube, it does wonders. Maybe if she's on top, too. That's what works for me. And just keep doing it. It'll stretch out.

Other Answers:
buy a warming gel by K-Y and use a cndom so its not a baby fest there and try opening her out a little with your fingers first play for a while and let her get excited first

If you are having sex, she's hardly a virgin. Maybe she just doesn't want to do it.

Go in slow not fast. Also try getting her wet down there and fingering helps.
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Was a virgin at 1 time

first time hurst most. she isn't used to something as big as your penis in her. she just has to strech it out. either that, screw a bit more.

You DO know that she's NOT a virgin anymore after the first time, right?

Anyways, all I can tell you is to take it slow and make sure you use LOTS of lube if she's not very wet, that can be commercially purchased lube, like Astroglide, or KY Jelly, or wet your fingers and rub them all over her if you have nothing else available.

But most of all . make sure she's ready (very turned on)and take it slow and please use a condom otherwise you'll be answering that same question for your own kids in the near future :P

You can order vaginal dilators in a gynecologists office. They come in varying sizes and you gradually increase the size for comfort. They are made especially for virgins or people who are anatomically small.

Correction!! Your girlfriend WAS a virgin. If it hurts her to have sex, its because her stuff is low milage yet. By the time she turns 18 and delivers her first child, she'll be loose as a goose and ready to roll in no time.

-J

for her, it'll hurt for a little while sadly, if you just keep doing it then it wont hurt any more. but yah, it may halp using a lot of lube, to make it slide in and out a lot easier.

OK. you're trying too hard. Don't get right down to business. Play with each other with hands and mouths for at least 1/2 hour before intercourse.

You and your girlfriend are having sex? Well sweetheart she is not a virgin.
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