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I HAVE AN ISSUE WITH MY HUSBAND, HE HAS NOT ENOUGH LENGTH NOR WIDTH. I TRIED TO TELL HIM, BABY LETS GO TO THE DR AND SEE IF HE COULD HELP US. HE SAYS I AM WRONG FOR NOT INDULGING IN RELATIONS WITH HIM BECAUSE I AM NOT BEING IN NO WAY SATISFIED. I FEEL HE SHOULD BE WILLING TO GIVE MORE TIME,ORAL PLEASURE. WE LAY DOWN HE IS DARN NEAR THERE ALREADY. IF WE MAKE IT TO THE BED AND UNDER THE COVERS, MY SHEETS ARE WET. IF WE MAKE CLOSE TO INSERTION HE IS DONE. IN THE MEANTIME. I AM STILL LAYING THERE W/O NOTHING HAPPENING. AM I WRONG FOR SAYING PLEASE IN SOME TYPE OF WAY, BEFORE YOU EXPLODE ALL OVER MY LEGS OR THIGHS. HE SAY HE HAS TO GET USE TO THE SAME STUFF BEFORE HE CAN GO LONG, THAN IT SWITCH TO IF I WAS GETTING REGULARLY I COULD GO LONGER, NOW ITS YOU WANT GIVE ME NONE, WELL ,DARN I GET NOTHING IN RETURN TO WANT TO GIVE IT UP. WHAT SHOULD I DO, BESIDES DO IT MYSELF OR FIND SOMEBODY WHO COULD GIVE ME MORE AND TAKE CARE OF ME AT LEASE DURING.
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well this is complicated. and dont listen to anyone that tels you to leave him just becase his sexual performance is lackin. do not cheat on him either, taht will end horrible. and the doing it yourself, you could do that. or you could entice him, seduce him. make im want you so much that he would be willing to do anything just so in the end he can get off. or you can tell him he is doing nothing sexally for you, and if he doesnt sart putting forth an effort he can sleep ith himself.you can try makeng him jealouse, that is classic but it generally works. so tose are just a few. if you ned some help comng up with how to do some of thesejust mail me.
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WOW. You have some serious issues to resolve or your marriage is not going to last much longer. Seek counseling. If he won't go, then go by yourself
You cannot change someone unless they want to change and if he doesn't see it as a problem, then he won't change.
Marriage is much more than sex, but it's also a relationship between two people. If one is unsatisfied and the other is unwilling to at least work towards a resolution, it's not working.
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