what do u do if a lot of people hate u at school? and how do u get people to lik!
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not popular?
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if you see yourself as a loser so will everyone else.. just be yourself and if they dont like you then its there lose..what makes you think you are a loser?
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You know.you just gotta be you. don't ever call yourself a loser, because you are not.
What makes you think people hate you? and have you done anything to make people hate you?
To get people to like you you just gotta be yourself, try to talk to different people, be nice( by nice i don't mean going out of your way to do this and that, I just mean even simple things like remembering to say thanks) Basically all I can say is try to get involved in different things, join the student council, the basketball team, or whatever interests you.
Before you do all that, you need to build your confidence up, because right now it doesn't seem to be all that high. You have to stop calling yourself a loser, because you are not. Maybe you need a change or a fresh start, why not try a new look something that will make you feel good. But anyhow you need to work on the inside that's the most important thing right now.
All you can do is be yourself. You can't let other people determine if you're a loser. You are who you are, you like what you like, and you dress how you dress. Don't let the fools in school try to mess with you. Be your own person at all times.
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You find other losers to hang out with, and laugh at the popular kids.
who says you are a loser-some flakey superpower,know-it all wannabe. why be popular,then you will be like them, plastic
if you think of yourself as a loser, people can sence that, be yourself, be proud of who you are and what you stand for, people will have a whole new impression of you and do not worry what other people think in the first place, you will fiend out later on in life that that they really turn out to be the losers., God Bless.
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Learn to repect yourself first.Start by not calling yourself a loser.Dont try too hard to be popular just try making a few good friends to hang with and leave the snobby populars to themselves.My 16 year old son was with the popular group through middle school,then in high school he drifted out cuz most of them were drinking and smokin pot.Now he has 4 friends that are more his style,Honors classes and on the golf team.Theres alot of pressure among the populars so you may be better off not being with them.Seriously you should learn to be happy with who you are and youll find a group of friends that are more like you.
popularity is something that really only happens in high school and politics. You will find that after high school those popular people don't quite function as well, and you, on the other hand, will start to blossum free from the horrible social pecking order of high school. Bleh. Anyone with half a brain hated high school, just ask them. Good luck, there is an end to it and then life begins!
hey,
if nobody likes you at school and youre the 'loser' type of person than you may need to either change your personality or something. like try to make conversation with somebody as quiet as you are. if that doesnt work, than you can either just like be nice and still be yourslf, but dont be very pig-like! but oly if you are really pig-like. well thats my advice t o you, if it doesnt work that contact me at Giggle4nothing@aol.com
by the way, what grae are youin? and how old?
first i think u need to determine if they truely do hate you and why you think they hate you? Could it be that they are jealous of you? Like the others said, if you think you are a loser then thats what people will think as well. And besides.what does being a loser really mean? Because you are not popular you think you are a loser? I am out of school and remember wondering why I wasn't popular, but ya know what? All those popular kids are the losers now.they all got into drugs thinking it was cool and now they are a bunch of drug addicts who are in and out of jail. Are they cool now? NOT! As hard as it may be try not to put too much emphasis on being popular-what does that get you anyway? Concentrate on you and being a good person. A good person accepts people as they are - in every shape, color, size..popular people tend to be very critical of others because they are insecure - you dont' wnat to be like that. Have you talked to a counselor about this? Not the counselor at school - but a licenses therapist? Maybe you should, they may be able to help you see the beautiful person that you are inside and out. Good luck and hang in there.
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