what is really important to most of men? Beauty or Brain?why?!


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to me brains are, but i'm not sure about other men. i knew some beauty's without brains and i just couldn't stand them. i precfer brains over beauty.

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Depends on the guy. If a chick is hot and too high matenince thats bad and brains are only part of the picture. A womens personality is also a contributing factor for attracting men. Who wants to be around with a brainy beautiful woman they can't stand for very long?

Im realistic, if a guy says beauty over brains, hes usually lying. The first thing you notice about someone is how they look and if your not attracted then your not. If a guy is not physically attracted to a girl from the start then this will be a problem, you will tend to get into the friends level and it is usually hard to get anywhere else. I think that alot of guys at that point in a friendship will become attracted to the brains, or whatever non physical features she may poses, and then she will be more attractive in his eyes. But i think guys in general are shallow when you first meet them, but they can come around, and girls are alot better at seeing the guy for what they really are off the start, which makes me happy cause im not sure i deserve the gilfriend i have, but i do have her.

As a man, it's difficult to speak for most men. We're really not as simplistic as you might imagine.

I can tell you, although most men fantasize about having the supermodel or the sexiest celebrity, we really only think alot about that when we're looking for someone to have a fling with. When we're serious about finding someone to have a relationship with, beauty suddenly takes somewhat of a back seat, simply because beautiful people tend to be self-involved. And who wants to commit to someone who thinks of themselves before anything else?

Beauty attracts the eye.

Brains keeps the guy.

Beauty: Because people are programmed that way. First by nature -- We subconsciously want a mate that will best extend our genetic code and, afterwards, provide for our offspring. In men, it's size and strength because the stronger a person is, the more able they are to survive. Also, the stronger an offspring's provider is, the more able they are to provide. In women, it's hips which are wide enough for giving birth and an ample bust for providing enough food for our offspring; which also, subconsciously feeds a man's need for a care giver.

Secondly by our society -- We're inundated every day by what society tells us is beautiful and by what society tells us we should desire. Despite how strong-willed you think you are, given enough input, you're susceptible to the ideals that society is showing you.

Brains: We tend to stay with those that are at about our level of intelligence. We like talking, hearing, understanding and being understood. Most people like to hear new ideas -- We don't always want to be the social director or make all the decisions. It's nice to be able to trust your mate when it comes time to make a decision. A sign of true intelligence is knowing that you don't know and being able to accept what another has to say. It's much easier if that other person is intelligent.

Before its beauty but lately, when women actively participates in any undertakings, for me, beauty and brain. Nevertheless, as to most important, its beauty.

My opinion- A female with a hot body, many men will just want to get her in bed, but deep inside want a "real woman", and those type of men are afraid of commitment to a "real woman" this woman might not be that 'hot bod' but have a decent body and brains as well. torn between as is women. thats a different topic all together.

TRUE BEAUTY SHINES INSIDE AND OUT, FOR ALL TO SEE!

Brain since he has to face the world for his survival and to look after his family.

i bet they prefer the looks, esp. alot of'em hate to be around a young lady that's smarter than'em cause that kinda offends them ..
. but never mind one thats' hotter than them cause they like to show off with her infront of their friends and love to be invied that he's the one who got her CAUSE he was smarter than her..
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